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different taste?
I've been wanting to ask this question for a while now, but i just didn't know how to put it and not sound racist. I'll try to make it as short as possible.
I'm 15/f. I'm hispanic and so are most of the people in my community, as well as african american. When my friends and I go to the mall it's pretty diverse, but there are a lot of white people. Not to kiss ass, but the girls look like dolls, even without makeup, and the guys, ughh, as if they had been chiseled by God himself.
But here's the problem: they only date other white people! i'm not conceited, but i am NOT ugly, or indecent or dirty-looking at all, and i know people like me and my friends have bad reputations amongst them, but are they really SO unattracted to us? am i really THAT repelling? Or is it that they're racist, or shy and not at all as outgoing as hispanic men. They [the men] can't even look us in the eye for more than a second.
Now again, im NOT racist, im just really curious about this. i've never had a caucassian boyfriend, and i dont think i ever will,and that's peachy because hispanics are just as cute, but i just need to know why, and what is it that they think about me when they see me. Do they need ME to make the first move or what?! Thnx in advance for your consideration...
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Well i'm hispanic & i've only dated caucassians. it's never been a problem...[except for one guy that had to ask his dad if it was ok to date a hispanic girl...he said hes but just no black girls. needless to say, we never went out] maybe it's the way you act or talk since you grew up with a lot of hispanics and african americans either that or they just don't know you well enough to want to be with you. or they might not like some of the people you associate yourself with...it happens to everyone. you don't need to make the first move besides maybe meeting them. some people are racist of hispanics and think that everyone that is slightly tan with natural dark hair is an illegal mexican who selss her body while her parents work at burger king. since there's a lot of your race and similar races, people think oh well she hangs with them and theres a lot them, they wouldnt wanna date me or whatever. there's all kinds of possible reasons that someone won't like you besides your race but yea, there are a bunch of assholes that do go by that. later on if life there will be plenty of men that will want to be with you because you are a hot and sexy latina... trussst me.
that's just what i've seen...i hope it helps you. <3
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its just that they see you differently. i dont think that these people say 'oh shes hispanic, not worth my time' thats not true, they dont think that. they just think 'were different' and its always hard to mix and try new things. people dont like that kind of change. so im guessing they're just sticking to what they're used to because they dont want to put the time and energy into changing the way it is. if that makes sence? so basically you make the first move. and they'll likely follow you
hope that helped
-mari :D
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It doesn't mean that there unattracted to hispanic people but maybe that they arn't interested in you. If you keep trying to find guys I'm sure you'll find somebody that will like you. Don't worry just keep trying. Hope this helped.
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