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Friends in trouble!


Question Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 3:21 pm

this is going to be very long, im sorry! thank you in advance if you read this.


Okay, My friend Christie liked this lifeguard Jason, i always thought he was an asshole, even by the look of him. She likes him, he LIKED her. they went out to dinner and like kissed i guess. and then today, on facebook, it said "In an realtionship" with no name! So i called christie and she was like "WHAT?!" [shes not allowed to use the internet becuase her step dad is very over protective.] and he friend meaghan was like "yeah i saw that too, i was thinking about it a few minutes ago." And then, I imed jason and he was like yeah blah, sup and this stuff [i dont get along with him.. i apologized becuase i was such a bitch] (by the way, im a freshman and hes a junior). And then i asked him about the relationship i said "so, are you in a realtionship with christie budd?" he said "no..." i said "well, on facebook it says you are, with whoo are you then?" he said "someone...." And then he was like

"this is what im talking about, you always have to get into our buisness! that is why i was mad at you"

I said "well, christie is my best friend, i should know everything, and i tell her everything you say to me, becuase you know, im on the phone with her right now."

and he said "i dont care, fuck this."

and christie was like is he being two faced? i was liek yup, i told you, he was an asshole, i always knew her was, i wish you listened to me about him.

and she said omg and she started crying.

(christie is also a freshman).

and then he was like "I FUCKING HATE FRESHMAN!" then he left for the hospital because he needs surgery.

What should she do? i feel horribal for her, shes so sad and depressed.


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DramaQueen101 answered Tuesday August 21 2007, 6:27 pm:
All you can do is basiclly just be there for her. Comfert her and get her some chocolate hehe. Umm it's hard to deal with things like this especially if your the best friend. Just make sure she knows that you care for as much as you can show it. Let her cry on your shoulder and even if your getting tired of hearing it then just still let her talk to you about it. Hope I could help!

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Jeanne answered Tuesday August 21 2007, 5:53 pm:
Just be there for her. Remind her that there are lots of other guys out there, and she'll find one who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated. But whatever you do, DONT tell her "I told you so" or "You should've listened to me." That's not going to make her feel any better, and it will probably only make her mad at you. Just be her friend and let her cry on your shoulder.

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