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How long are you supposed to wait after a break up to start dating someone else? (link)
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Well its hard fro me to answer that becuase I dont know how serious the relatonship was. But I think nobody can answer that except yourself. Youre the only one who can tell if your ready to start a new relationship. But dont try and force yourself into one. You'll know. Hope I could Help =)
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Okay I liked this boy. I knew he didn't like me so we just flirted and stuff.
Well I got a lot of stuff done to me over the summer. I got basicly a make-over. New hair, I lost 20pounds!!!!!, and got new glasses. Well I was hanging out with a couple friends when they brought him up. There like doi u still like him???and thats a yes. Ohh well you look stunning Katie, dont worry theres not way he wont gawk at you. It was a fun night but I got worried. What if he doesn't like my new hair? I usto have an afro.. hardcore afro! Now its layered and straight.And I got those emo glasses.
His name is Eric. and he's the sweetest guy you'd ever meet. He's not like guys, but hes not gay lol.. He puts up with soo much shit.. all me and Danieles gossip:) Ahhhh wbat if he hates it and stops talking to me because he cant stand to look at me??Okay that would never happen... err.
Can you please give me some confidence. Because I know I look good. But I want him to love it to.. (link)
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Ok I'm glad taht you got a make-over and I hope it makes you feel like the beautiful girl you prbly are. So now you just need a confidence boost with your make over. You said you got to know this Eric dude right? So I doubt if he talked to you and seemed to like you as a friend when yo used to look like you used to look... Well I think all guys like new and improved stuff and I dont doubt that he wont like it.. and even if he doesn't then thats not going to be everybodys opinion and hey maybe a guy that didnt notice you before might take a new liking to you. Hey who knows!
Hope I helped some!
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I've answered alot of questions on love and relationships but for once, i don't know what to do.
I've been with this guy for a little over 9 months. We've known each other for a year and that whole time we've had our fights, our moments but always been inlove.
Now, it's changed. What happened was one weekend i wasn't able to see him or talk to him on the phone or computer at all because of my circumstances. After the weekend, i was able to see him again but something was different. I kept asking him what was wrong and he kept saying nothing but it was like he didn't care for me anymore. I asked him if he still loved me and he said he didn't know. It broke my heart.
This continued for about a week and i was bracing myself for the breakup. Then, i decided i couldn't take him anymore and told him it was over but i still wanted to stay friends. He called me the next day crying telling me he couldn't live without me and he loved me still and he was sorry and i was still soo inlove with him that i took him back (we have been through alot of stuff before so i thought it was just one of those days).
Anyways, after about 2 days he was still the same but it was like he was trying to care about me. I asked him what happened and he told me that he missed flirting and being single that he had met some girls the weekend i wasn't able to see him and that he was flirting with them and just wanted to be able to be single again. That totally tore my heart apart. Then he continued that he didn't get that same warm feeling inside that he used to get when he saw me or talked to me.
He said he wanted to be inlove with me again so we gave it a shot. After a week we started to go back to normal but everytime i thought about how he had felt before i could feel my heart breaking over and over again.
Now, he is sort of half how he used to me. He is like he used to be but he always goes out with his guy friends alot and tells me when a girl tries hitting on him and constantly asking me if im jealous like he WANTS me to get jealous but it just makes me soooo sad.
I know the obvious thing to do here is to break up because then i can heal and get better and he won't be hurting anymore but i just love him to much. I tell people all the time it will hurt but they will get better as i have had my heart broken before but this time it's different.
We WERE soul mates. We were different in our ways but we just seemed soo perfect for each other and i had never met anyone like him before.
I know im still young and if we do break up i'll find someone else and probably end up dating alot of guys before i find "the one" but i don't want anyone else.. i want him.
I really do not want to dump him but i have to. I need help. it's never ever been like this before i dont know if its normal for couples to go through this stage and if they get out of it or not im just so confused and hurt and betrayed.
I dont want people to say "u should dump him" or "u shouldnt" because i want to make that decision on my own. I need advice on how to deal if we do breakup and how other people have gotten over ex's they thought they were inlove with and how i can still be friends with him. And if any advice on people who have been through this and its worked out. Thankyou. (link)
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Ok omg my heart goes out to you! This story has it's ups and its downs but ya know everyone has their soul mate. And alot of times we think we know who they are only to get dissapointed. It sounds like your trying really hard to make this work and try and not like make him but WANT him to feel the same way he used to feel about you. It might work for a little while but I dont think that its going to work for forever. Maybe this is just a mountian that yall both have to climb together. And maybe after yall take a break for a while then you can get back together with him if it was meant to be. But dont try to force love and fate. I know it will be hard if you do decide to break up with him but like you said you WILL heal and yes, it might take a while and you might not want to be happy and giddy for sometime but I think that it will eventually get better even though it might not seem like it. I know I probly didn't help that much and I am just rambling on. But I hope you got a little peice of advice from me. Hope everything turns out how it is supposed to. I wish you both best of luck!
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I want to do something romantic for my boyfriend. Nothing fancy. He said the little things make him happy but I need some ideas. I'm pretty crafty, so anything with arts.. would be easy. He picks little flowers for me and makes me paper hearts. I don't know what to do for him.. Something that a boy would like you know?
I made him a personal valentines card in a vintage style. I've also given him about 3-4 stuffed animals. Some other things too.. but I want something more original, something that will make him smile.
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Ok this is a fun question for me because my bestie wanted some ideas too and we finally came up with a really good one...since you siad your crafty you can find some ways to decorate a just like regular notebook and then in it write like the things you like about him and write him like a special note to him and then give it to him and it can be like yalls notebook that you give back and forth to each other. Saying diffrent little things that you like about eachother or w/e. I hope I helped!
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im going on a big mall trip today. and its really cold and yucky and crappy out.. so i wanna wear sweats. is that completely bummy? i just want some opinions :) let me know ♥ (link)
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nah. Just cause there comfy dosnt mean it has to be bummy looking.
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this is going to be very long, im sorry! thank you in advance if you read this.
Okay, My friend Christie liked this lifeguard Jason, i always thought he was an asshole, even by the look of him. She likes him, he LIKED her. they went out to dinner and like kissed i guess. and then today, on facebook, it said "In an realtionship" with no name! So i called christie and she was like "WHAT?!" [shes not allowed to use the internet becuase her step dad is very over protective.] and he friend meaghan was like "yeah i saw that too, i was thinking about it a few minutes ago." And then, I imed jason and he was like yeah blah, sup and this stuff [i dont get along with him.. i apologized becuase i was such a bitch] (by the way, im a freshman and hes a junior). And then i asked him about the relationship i said "so, are you in a realtionship with christie budd?" he said "no..." i said "well, on facebook it says you are, with whoo are you then?" he said "someone...." And then he was like
"this is what im talking about, you always have to get into our buisness! that is why i was mad at you"
I said "well, christie is my best friend, i should know everything, and i tell her everything you say to me, becuase you know, im on the phone with her right now."
and he said "i dont care, fuck this."
and christie was like is he being two faced? i was liek yup, i told you, he was an asshole, i always knew her was, i wish you listened to me about him.
and she said omg and she started crying.
(christie is also a freshman).
and then he was like "I FUCKING HATE FRESHMAN!" then he left for the hospital because he needs surgery.
What should she do? i feel horribal for her, shes so sad and depressed. (link)
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All you can do is basiclly just be there for her. Comfert her and get her some chocolate hehe. Umm it's hard to deal with things like this especially if your the best friend. Just make sure she knows that you care for as much as you can show it. Let her cry on your shoulder and even if your getting tired of hearing it then just still let her talk to you about it. Hope I could help!
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Me and three friends (my besties) are going to a theme park next week and two of us have a bet with each other:
I know its not totally morally right and w/e.. but its just for some end of summer fun.
Each guy you flirt with and flirts back you get a point for. 5 points if you get his number.
This park is a number of hours away from home.. so its not like we're ever gonna see any of them again...
It's for bragging rights, so its not a big deal...
Any tips? Convo starter? Anything to help me win :]
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Umm Ha first of all props to you and your friends for playing this game...I have played it with my besties before one of our fav. past times haha. So I love it when a Hott guy is in line close to you then just say like omg this ride looks so scary etc. Or w.e
If its just randomly around the park go up to him and just be like Hey. Ya know hopefully he wont just walk away. But just a tip from personal experiance MAKE SURE that a girl is not with him haha
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~you probably get this alot,but i need help! i recently became friends with this kid named jason & we talk on myspace aim and the phone ALOT. I almost know everything about this kid. And it's starting to make me like him. But im wayyy to scared to ask him out because hes older than me but he got held back. Plus i mean hes gone out with a few girls but you honestly cant ever tell if he likes someone or not, because he doesn't get the usual simptoms a guy would get around a girl. And i REALLY want to know if he likes me, but i dont wana tell my friends or ask him out! what should i do?
lov ya
xxbazooookaxx
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You should totally be honest with him. Because Ok imagine that its 10 years down the road and Jason is getting married and yeah you go to his wedding just wish ing you had told him how you feel. Be honest and tell him. You'll never know if you dont ask. Hope I could help!
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does anyone know a song about a girl who loves this guy but they live far away from eachother? (link)
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Here without you by 3 doors down... that alwayz makes me feel better
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I'm starting a new relationship with a guy i really like how do I keep it exciting and try to keep it new like so we aren't tired of each other real fast? (link)
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Well theres no like absolute way I can tell y ou to keep it fun and exciting but ya know go on diffrent kind of dates. Not just the old Dinner and movie I mean dont get me wrong thats fun too but try new things when your with him!
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school starts in two days and open house was today and i saw this guy and he is new. my dads the principle and his dad is accually the son of one of the teachers(hes new too)i accually would have his dad as a teacher but i was put in advanced classes. well anyway i saw him before that day cause his dad also coaches the boys soccer team and he plays and i play volleyball and he went through the gym during are practice.its really cool cause hes adopted and so am i. i think hes hawaiian!but hes really cute and he seems like a nice guy-not like the guys that think there the stuff or anything like that. im not shy but when it comes to boys i kinda get a lil shy.im not sure if i should make it known that i like him before school cause im afraid of how he will take it cause i really dont know him at all and he doesnt know me ethier.should i wait to get to know a lil more about him. i meen im afraid that girls will be all over him when school starts cause we have more girls then boys so cute guys are scarce.im afraid he will find someone he likes and i wont even have a chance!i just want to go with a new guy that doesnt know anything about me so i can kinda start over.thanx to anyone who answeres!! (link)
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Ok so I know totally how you feel becuase I felt the same way about this guy Zach...but see you ABSOLUTLY need to get to know him first and Definantly dont get it started around school that you like this dude cause then ya know I think he owuld think oh she just goes for guys that are hott or whatever because you dont know him at all. So my advice is get to know him be his friend first not just cause you like him either cause you said he's new to school right? So get to know him show him around school hang out talk on the computer and phone and after you get to know the real him then you can decide if you still like him and then if you do then you should go for it! Hope I helped!
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how should i go about it. (link)
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Hunny u dont need to lose any weight ur already under the weight limit and if you think your fat then you need to rethink some things and get some help
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