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i've been talking to this guy all summer but we've said we love each other and we talked on the phone like everynight. but we have this mutual friend Greg and his girlfriend's name is Allison. and lately this guy has been talking to Allison more than me. i mean we're not dating so hes really not cheating on me and im not the jealous type but i just don't know what to do. i mean she has a boyfriend but im not sure Greg knows about it. what should i do??
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wow. omg. it's like we're the same people. i have the same problem.
i know how you're probably feeling. jealous, angry, sad, like you miss him, like he's hurting you. ughh.
ask to hang out with him more. call him more, but not to the extent where it gets annoying. get closer with him and treat him like a very very good friend. tell him a secret that youve "never told anyone else."
I've been doing these things with my other friend and he & I are really getting closer. honestly.
i hope i helped :)
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one of my best friends, Amanda, has this pretty serious boyfriend. they love eachother, but the thing is.. he's not that good of a boyfriend. he can be sweet, but also can get mad at her alot. we used to be friends (me & him), but we grew apart for dumb reasons. that's not even it though.. they're talking about MARRYING eachother and going to the same collage. we're in 10th grade! ughhh.. i mean, could this just be talk? she's starting to hang out with him alot, and loose some of her friends.. and plus, he puts her in bad moods when he treats her badly (which is like, 50% of the time). i can't talk to her about it beacuse i'm the one that kind of got them together and everything. i just want them to break up soon, and i feel bad for thinking that!! =[ what should i do? (link)
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if they're talking about marrying eachother in tenth grade, that is deff talk! seriously, nobody talks about marrige when they're 16. my god. but next time she starts complaining about him, she's not going to be thinking about how good the relationship is. so just tell her "don't you think that what he's been doing is wrong? do you think it's time to break up?" or something like that. maybe she'll get really angry and freak out on you and tell her that it's just a little fight or something. maybe she won't know and she'll start crying and she won't know what to think. maybe she'll take your advice up and ask "do you really think so?"
and for when she starts talking about the relationship and it gets really boring and old, switch subjects right away as soon as she ends a sentence or a bit of a story or if there's a pause to something like "dont you feel like watching a movie" or "what are we gonna do tonight?" or something. she'll most likely take the hint. if she doesn't then just bring it up upon her. ask her "can we talk about something else?" or just flat out tell her "I'm not trying to be mean but I don't feel like talking about your boyfriend."
I hope I helped. :)
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So I've been dating this boy for a good 8 months.. It would've been 9 if he had waited a couple of days. And I think it's lame to ask questions on here, no offense, but I'm desperate. There's so much to the story, but to sum it all up, he broke up with me for another girl. I think he wants to go back out in the future.. And he said he couldn't be with me if he liked someone else. And I don't know, it's just so hard. I've been crying and crying because it took this breakup to realize that I was actually in love with him. And up until recently, he was too.
How do you get over someone you loved SO much? I don't even feel like getting out of the house and I don't wanna meet new people. I just want him back =/ (link)
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awe sweetie i'm so sorry.
i guess all i can say is that you don't get over it. you cope with it. you tell him how you feel and let him know that you really really want him back. don't seem desperate like you said you feel, just tell him that you miss him. you want him back. ask him what you did wrong.
if you're in love with him, it won't take him long to realize what he's missing out on and what he's leaving behind. however if he does decide to just leave you and forget about you, you most deff have much better things to do.
FORCE yourself to go out of the house.
FORCE yourself to have fun.
in the end you'll realize that he's not worth it and neither is any other guy.
be strong. :)
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