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How do i answer this question??
ok this is really stupid and weird, but anyway... every so often my boyfriend will call me up and ask me "would you ever go out with john?" or "do you think tom is hot?". and usually, "john" or "tom" is sitting right next to him. or sometimes, john or tom will call me up and ask if i'd ever go out with them. and i know my bf is right there and told them to ask me that.
so i have two questions:
1) how do i answer that question? if i say "no, i'd never go out with you", that sounds kinda mean. but if i say "yes" or "maybe", then my bf will get mad and think i like them.
2) why in the world is my bf doing this?? i mean what is his motivation?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
so when they ask you out be like "nooo tomm i have a boyfriend"
which may end up with the follow up questsion of: "but WOULD you ever go out"
in which you say: "right now all i want to think about it me and -bfs namee- and how happy we are"
and your boyfriend could be doing this to see your loyalty or maybe hes just wierd haha
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His motivation for doing this is probably trust issues. Someone in every relationship has them and its not unnatural. Your best bet would to maybe talk to him about this. Ask him why he puts you in those positions. Or better yet say, I like your friends, but just AS friends. They dont mean as much to me as you do. Boys will be boys as the saying goes.
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Your boyfriend is testing yalls relationship.He's trying to figure out are you worth staying with, if yall have enough trust.Trust me, don't say yes or make an attempt you would consider you'd go out with them if you weren't with your boyfriend, unless you truely do.Don't worry about it.Just beat him at his own game and make him believe you can be trusted.Hope I helped.
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