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I'm sick of this!
I'm not gonna be your average 14 year old girl and ask why my life sucks. I know why. It's my fault I pushed people away and made them mad. I talked shit. That's why he doesn't like me that's why everyone hates. I'm a loser and I know it. I was just gonna ask should I end it all so I won't have to deal? I really need help. I'm not trying anymore. I can't even get an ugly guy to talk to me because I"m ugly and stupid and I basically don't fit in with just about anyone.
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Please go and re-read your post, but pretend that it's a post that someone ELSE wrote.
What would you say to that person?
I think you're being way OVERLY CRITICAL of yourself. And you need to starting caring about yourself or no one else will. How do you do that? Do what I suggested. Read your post and see how awful you are treating yourself. Then maybe you will take some pity on this poor person who's beating herself up and learn to be your own friend. Then other friends will come too.
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Don't end it all, trust me... I used to have serious depression issues a few years back, attempted suicide and everything and now that I look back on it, it was really for pathetic reasons. There's a whole world of people out there, many with worse problems then you and they aren't killing themselves over it. Not to sound harsh or anything but you need to work hrough this. Talk to the people that are mad at you, try to work it out. If you're sincere, to the point and willing to change your ways most people will forgive you. And as far as the guy thing goes, no guy is worth your life and that's something that you need to remember forever. Guys come and go, but everyone goes through heartbreak, and yeah, it sucks majorly but if you get through it, it's worth it in the end and you can learn from the mistakes you made. Talking about it here though and asking fir advice is probably the best thing that you've done though, it shows that you're willing to ask for help and aren't completely lost in your need to end it all. I'd suggest talking to someone that you're close to about it, an authority figure of sorts. I myself sought refuge in my aunt when times were tough. Ansd althouh it might seem like there's no bright future, if you talk to someone about your problemd and make it through this rut, life will become a lot easier. So in the words of dori, "just keep swimming" and get some help, you might infact be havuing somre serious depression problems as well and if so might be perscribed medication from your doctor to help.
Best of luck, dreadlydearest <33
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You shouldn't think of suicide. I'm a 15 year old and I go through the same thing of thinking about it as well. I have things going on in my life and I'm sure you do too. So just apologize to the people you talked shit on. Everyone makes mistakes. You live and you learn.
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Hello. I have felt this way to before , like no one likes me they think im ugly and no one would ever like me. I didnt think of suicide though because i have alot going for me. I dont talk "shit" to people much. But i would just try to make new friends or tell your old friends that your sorry and you take back what you have said. Now im 13 im just getting into this whole teen thing. But just be someone new and act nice. Thank you , have a good day =]
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I do not think that you should end it all because are way to young to be giving up on life. Everyone makes mistakes and that is something that you have to realize...If you are truly sorry and feel bad about the things you have said in the past to others, than you have to get the courage to confront those people and apologize. That is the hardest part, taking that step to becoming a better person. You already realize that there is a problem, the only way you are going to feel better about yourself is if you make the change and start to feel confident in yourself. It is not something that happens over night. You have to work at it. Life isn't supposed to be easy all of the time, you will face problems and hard decisions. It's all about being strong and facing those issues head on. Don't wait, don't give up, live learn, and move on. You are allowed to make mistakes. It's what you choose to learn from them that's most important. I have been where you have been. I have been alone and feeling like I was ugly and that nobody would ever like me. I can honestly tell you that it was so hard for me to make the decision to change, it was hard trying to change. I didn't give up and I started trying new things, and made new friends. Saying sorry makes you feel good about yourself, it means you did something good. So think about that. Make a promise to yourself to start fresh, and become a better person. You have so much more in life that you need to do, and so many good things that you should experience, don't let life control you, just learn from what you do and try and find ways to move past that and become better for it...hope I helped, if u need anything else, just ask.
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No don't end it all that's the bad way to get around things. I know how much most people hate them, but you could try a counceler. And just tell them what's going on...tell them NOT to talk until you're done (as far as i know they'll listen to that) and just let everything out. if you can't find someone close to you to talk to, talk to someone who doesn't know anyone that you know. so even if they wanted to tell your secrets, they couldn't. and i doubt you're ugly and stupid you probably just have low self-esteem so you see yourself that way. Trust me, I had the exact same problem. Try not to talk shit, try not to push people away so much. I know it's hard, it's gonna be hell in a handbasket, but can it be much worse than now? don't end it all though because all you'd end up doing, is hurting people more, and giving the jerks a reason to say "look, she took the sissy way out of it" (don't wanna get in trouble with A.N for cussing)
well, I hope I helped, and if you wanna talk, i'm here for you, I know what you're going through, I've been there. Just leave me a messege.
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