Well what can I say, I'm just like everyone else..your occasional problems and always having questions that need answering. Don't we all. I am going to school as an English and Journalism major. My life has been full of some pretty crazy and hard times, I have endured some horrible and painful times in my life. The positive thing that came out of all that, is I stayed strong to this day and I learned so much about who I was and what I wanted to do with my life. I vowed to make a better life than the one I had growing up. I have always struggled and to this day, things are still pretty hard. I do not give up and the best part of my life right now is being able to share my past experiences with others, and giving the best and most honest advice I can give. My advice comes from the heart, and also can make you laugh. I am passionate about helping others and making them feel comfortable. I can give good advice and I can also learn from others. So please feel free to ask anything. I can only promise to do my best.
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Age: 21
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I'm not gonna be your average 14 year old girl and ask why my life sucks. I know why. It's my fault I pushed people away and made them mad. I talked shit. That's why he doesn't like me that's why everyone hates. I'm a loser and I know it. I was just gonna ask should I end it all so I won't have to deal? I really need help. I'm not trying anymore. I can't even get an ugly guy to talk to me because I"m ugly and stupid and I basically don't fit in with just about anyone. (link)
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I do not think that you should end it all because are way to young to be giving up on life. Everyone makes mistakes and that is something that you have to realize...If you are truly sorry and feel bad about the things you have said in the past to others, than you have to get the courage to confront those people and apologize. That is the hardest part, taking that step to becoming a better person. You already realize that there is a problem, the only way you are going to feel better about yourself is if you make the change and start to feel confident in yourself. It is not something that happens over night. You have to work at it. Life isn't supposed to be easy all of the time, you will face problems and hard decisions. It's all about being strong and facing those issues head on. Don't wait, don't give up, live learn, and move on. You are allowed to make mistakes. It's what you choose to learn from them that's most important. I have been where you have been. I have been alone and feeling like I was ugly and that nobody would ever like me. I can honestly tell you that it was so hard for me to make the decision to change, it was hard trying to change. I didn't give up and I started trying new things, and made new friends. Saying sorry makes you feel good about yourself, it means you did something good. So think about that. Make a promise to yourself to start fresh, and become a better person. You have so much more in life that you need to do, and so many good things that you should experience, don't let life control you, just learn from what you do and try and find ways to move past that and become better for it...hope I helped, if u need anything else, just ask.
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ok...this might sound like a really stupid question but i really want to know...how do you know if you like someone....i mean...i know you have this feeling and stuff but how do you really know and how do you know if they like you back??? (link)
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The advice I can give you for really knowing if you like someone is is, you can honestly and truly be your complete self around that person without feeling you have to put on a show. You start to feel confident in yourself around that person. When you are not around them you think about them all of the time, and what kinds of things you would like to do for that person just to make them happy. You do not fight all of the time, and you share common interests along with showing each other new adventures. You feel like a better person just from being with him, and that person is a better person from being with you. He likes you back if he's not afraid to talk to you around other people, or maybe be close to you in public, he tries to find little ways to make you happy, or call just to talk. Compliments are always a given. He doesn't feel the need to be one person around you and a different person with other people. My advice comes from my personal experience with my current boyfriend who I love, I have had a couple boyfriends in the past, but nothing comes close to how I feel about mine right now. You just feel happy, and you feel its different from anything else you have ever experienced, you are just happy whenever you are around that person, everything seems ok just being with him.
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ok so you've heard it before, i like my best guy friend but he's sort of involved with someone. a few months ago i was going to tell him i liked him and as i opened my mouth to say it he said "so i heard so and so likes me" so i never ended up telling him i liked him. now he likes this girl and she likes him. they call each other everyday but they always fight and they're not even going out yet. then he comes back to me for advice about it and i don't know what to say. i want him so bad, he's so sweet and caring and when his "non-girlfriend" isn't around i always feel this spark between us but im not sure if he feels it too. he was going to ask this girl out because things were going good for a while but now they're fighting again and he's asking for advice again. he's always so stressed out because of this and he always looks depressed. i want to show him that there's something better (me) but i don't know how he'll react and i don't know exactly what to say. any advice? im open to about anything. (link)
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It's always hard to figure out when to tell someone you like them, you are always wondering if he feels the same way, or if he doesn't, and that would break your heart..or things could start to get awkward between the both of you. I think that you should continue to be there for him, and maybe find little ways to show him that you have feelings for him...tell him you care about him, and will always be there for him. guys don't like to be pushed too much, so falling back on that one person who makes him feel good and relaxed is a good start. Right now he's going through some difficult relationship problems, so maybe telling him now would overwhelm him and he might not know what to think. If things are meant to happen between you too, they will. You seem like a great friend, so keep going with that. Let things fall into place as you go, you will know when its right to put your feelings out there. You already are, so don't worry about that. Don't be afraid to take those risks in life. If he is someone you truly want to be with, and need to find that out, than you owe it too yourself to find that out. Life is about learning and growing from the decisions that you choose to make. It might not always turn out the way you would like, but that only means something better is coming, so you learn and move on. When you feel it is the right time, and there isn't so much going on with other girlfriends and emotions, then take that chance and find that out, you will never know unless you put yourself out there...I hope this helps. If you need anything else, feel free to ask.
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