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I'm Really Worried About My Friend!! HELP
So i have this friend at school and im really confused about her...because shes really sweet 1 on 1 but when your with a group of people especially boys she wont talk...so we started getting suspecious...plus, her sister is bi-sexual. And we have another friend who she always stares at in wrong places and talks about her 24.7!! (In ways that are kinda okward!) And one night at a sleepover we asked her why she didnt like boys and she just shrugged...and we asked her if she would ever consider going out with the other girl. And then she started getting really uncomphortable and okward. So how do me & my friends deal with this? -We want her to be able to talk to us about this kinda things...HELP!
--thnx..missymay123
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Well, first of all, you need to make sure she knows that you and your friends would be okay with the fact that she may be gay or bi-sexual. If she even has a sneaking suspicion that any of you wouldn't be okay with it, she won't feel comfortable confiding in you about it. Just let her know that you have noticed these things and you would be okay if she wasn't into guys. Hope this helps.
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She may or may not be gay and or confused about her sexuality. If she knows you are supportive and good friends she may come to you later about the truth.
The other thing is perhaps she's just not interested in the boys at your school or concerned wit that right now. You crossed the line with your kind of questioning about what sex she would prefer to date.
That's personal and her business. Anyone be them gay or not would find those questions awkward, rude and inappropriate. It is up to her to say something or anything when she chooses to or not.
Until that time don't bring this issue up again and go about your lives and business as usual. If she wants your support or to tell you something about her sexual preferences she'll do it on her own or not at all.
Her sister may be bisexual but that means absolutely nothing about her own sexual prefrences which really are not yours or your friends to worry about. In fact, judging frm what happened at the sleepover she may never talk to you guys about her sexual identity period. And that's out of fear. Wait and see what occurs and treat her like anyone else.
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