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CONFUSED FRIENDSHIP!!!!


Question Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 2:52 pm

13/f (I am going to use nicknames)

So, I have a friend, Murray. She and I hate this girl, S. S and I used to be friends with Murray. Well, I'm not friends with S, but with Murray. Murray said she hated S like me because S did rude things to me and her. Well, S called and invited me to her B-Day party Friday. i said I was busy because I was, Murray was coming over so we could watch Naruto. Murray said we should go to S's B-Day party because she said that S had changed. Now, I am so confused. First, Murray hates S, now she wants to be her friend! I never trusted S and my parents don't like her. Neither does my boyfriend. I want to know what to do at this point. Murray keeps sayign I have done bad things to S to make S do bad things to me. I did not. I did bad things to her after S did bad thigns to me. It's called revenge! I JUST NEED HELP!!!!!!

If it helps, I kinda used S after we got in a fight. I was going to use her to get some money cuz she shares money with friends all the time. Murray was in on it too, until she got her bad feeling. Now, I am confused. Please help!

Thank you!
Izzy Uchiha &hearts


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Teza answered Wednesday August 15 2007, 6:05 pm:
Friends get into fights all of the time but if you truly dis-like S, don't be her friend just because Murray is. It's not fair. Using S for money and other things is wrong and selfish but that's on you. People do change and maybe you could give S another chance and let her prove to you that she is a better friend. Forget about the useless drama and stupid fights because it will get you guys no where.

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skylalou_1 answered Wednesday August 15 2007, 5:36 pm:
Well, I believe in second chances so maybe you and Murray could go to the party and see if she really has changed, that way you'll know for sure. People can change, whether it be for the good or for the bad, that's something your going to have to decide, but this is your decision, i was just saying you could go to the party and see if she really has changed, then you'll know whether ya can be friends or not...hope I helped
* Skyla *

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