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what do i do
So I have like no friends right no for some reason. All of my friends made their own little cliques and I'm NOT in them. Whenever I try talking to them, they'll be like hi what's up and won't talk anymore! Ugh. I ask them to hang out but they are always with their new clique. Until school starts, I can really only talk to them online so what can I say online to start a conversation and work my way up to asking them to hang out?? I don't have a lot of memories with them because I'm so quiet and don't talk a lot. I need advice for talking more and how to start a good conversation that won't end right away. Thanks.
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Dear Nontalker,
Ok...you deffinately need to talk. I would reccomend starting off by a simple hi, then asking them whats up. n then ask them if theyre doing anythng fun with thei friends and if they say no then say you know i really miss hanging out with you so it would be great if we could hang out sometime, and it would also be great if i could meet some of your friends.
~justlikekandy14~
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you could try inviting them to a party. so ask your parents if you could have one you know like a sleepover party. my friends always hang out with each other and what i do is tell them how i felt. they said [oh im sorry you felt that way but thats not how it is] and well i made my own party. and they came and we talked a lot and it was like the whole thing never happend but if they are your real friends they will listen to what you have to say!!
chira
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i'll try to do the best i can...
when all of you are hanging out and someone is sharing a story/experience/ whatever, ask questions, be a good listener. say something like "i know what you mean" whatever realtes to the conversation. to be close with someone you two have to something in common or some joke. take a personal experience you and your friends have experienced together and say something completely wild and hilarious happened, the next time you see them you can be like "remember when ....?" and all laugh together. but dont bring something up too much or else they'll think youre annoying. i really hope i helped :]
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