i had sex last night and we agreed that he would pull out, but i dont know if he actually did. i was wondering if you would be able to feel it? he wasnt wearing a condom, and im scared that he may not have pulled out. thank you.
Guys- especially at this age- can be very convincing, but you have to be strong and stand your ground. Please don't get upset and take this as a lecture, I'm just trying to help. I knew way too many friends in h.s. and college that ended up getting pregnant. OF course, each one thought that it WOULD NEVER HAPPEN TO THEM, but it did.
Brandi_S answered Monday August 13 2007, 11:58 am: No, not really. You have to basically trust him when he says he did. (Can't always trust that he did as he said, however, when discussing a teen boy with raging hormones...)
You need to use condoms, or some other form of birth control. You should be able to get condoms free of charge from your county health department if you can't afford them.
The pull out method is NOT an effective form of birth control. I have a baby that proves the pull out method is purely myth. Though there is nowhere near the amount of sperm in pre cum as there is in semen, there IS sperm there.
xxclusive answered Monday August 13 2007, 9:10 am: You would probably be able to feel it but there's still a chance you didn't.
You need to know pulling out is NOT a safe method of birthcontrol. If you don't want to use condoms then at least go onto the pill.
He could ejaculate a little bit (precum) without either of you even realising it and that's all it takes to get you pregnant.
thelaura answered Monday August 13 2007, 8:46 am: Honestly, if you don't know, we won't know.
You probably would be able to feel it, but perhaps you just didn't.
As you probably know, the pull out method isn't safe at all, so even if he did pull out, you still could be pregnant . Ever heard of precum?
My advice would be to wait for your next period. It's all you can do, really.
and remember to be safer in future.
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