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Betrayed?
Yeah well my absolute best friend since the 1st grade just got a new boyfriend. It has recently come to my attention that he has been talking really bad about me and my boyfriend (my boyfriend and my friend were also really good friends before she met her boyfriend). I told me friend and she didn't care in the least bit and he keeps on doing it. Let me also say that she doesn't even like her boyfriend that much and theyve only been together for like 2 weeks. Should I feel like betrayed or something? If my boyfriend said one bad thing about my friend he'd be gone in a minute.
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Talk to her again and again and again until she listens, tell her everything.
Also I have heard this before, if your friend hasn't had many boyfriends, then she might do anything to keep this one.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
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Well is she over him? If she is, talk to her, aboout you know when she was with him, and how you felt betrayed, and see where it goes from there. She might try to sweet talk since its over and done with, but you have to make peace, and see if you can trust her again. Good luck
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It sounds as though this guy is headed out the door anyway. Your friend knows how you feel and now its up for her to say something to him about it.
You need to stay calm and not bring it up again. If you do you risk losing her as couples will always side with one another no matter what is happening and you could be tossed aside for stating an opinion over negative things he does.
I would bite your tongue and wait and see what transpires. If she acts like she doesn't like him all too much two weeks in to this relationship it's a good sign it will implode on its own rather fast.
Don't feel betrayed as every couple sides with their partner and not a friend or anyone outside their relationship.
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