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Hooking up
F/15
okay well im a virgin and ive barley had my first kiss. and theres this guy who i really like and we havent meet. he lives in jersey. but anyway movining on. we were talking and he asked how far i would go with him. and i dont know how far i would go. mainly because ive never made out with anyone and im really idk i feel awkard talking about it but i was just wondering how far is too far for my first hook up?
thanks.
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Are you ready to have sex my dear? You are the only one that can decide this. If you are asking, you're not. Making out leads to sex, so if you start there be prepared eventually to go all the way. I would love to tell you to wait, but it would be futile. At least, when you do have sex make sure it is with someone you trust and love. Otherwise, you might regret it. Also, ask a lot of questions before you decide to do anything. btw where did you meet this guy? If online make sure he is not a sexual predator. Good luck!
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i think that
it would be making out
at least the first time..
because you dont want to seem too easy
and i mean tell him that you dont like to talk about it because it makes you feel shy because you havent made out with anyone.. if he doesnt understand then
hess not the rite one
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Don't do anything that you don't want to do ever!
If he like you enough then he should understand you limits. Also it depends on how far you feel comfortable with your first hook up.
Hope this helps.
AlyssaBT4T
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I'd like to say do what you feel is right in the moment. Because really that's all that should matter.
However, it depends on what you mean by first 'hook-up'
If you mean first boyfriend, then go as far as you like as fast as seems right. No-one can fault you for that.
If you mean the first time you meet them, then i'd say that at most you should kiss him. It may well put him off if you go to fast for him, and if you go too far then other people will look down on you for being a 'slut' or a 'whore' or whatever.
So really, do what feels right. But don't go too far :)
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A gentleman wouldn't ask you these questions. If this is someone you are talking to over the internet, and that you have never met, he may not actually be a boy from New Jersey. He could be a perverted old man. Sure you can meet young people over the internet, buy do you think it is OK for him to be asking about having sex with you, before he even meets you. I don't think so. There is too great a chance that this is a pervert and not a teenager.
In any event, you probably don't believe me, but at least try this.
You said you weren't comfortable talking about it, and that is what you should tell him, and tell him that you don't want him to mention it again. Then if he stops talking to you on-line then you know he was only interested in one thing....SEX, and you'll be better off without him. Take care,
Michele
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