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what should i do?
uhhh well i have this friend and i think that i might have fallen in love with her but im not sure. She likes me as a friend, but i think i like her more then that. I really do not know if i should tell her, or how to tell her.
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well i think that you two should remain friends, and maybe as she spends time with you she might start liking you more, but she just might feel more comfortable just staying friends with you, and doesnt want to lose the friendship you guys have now. If you feel comfortable and ready and can trust her enough to tell her how you feel in your own words then tell her. you know her better then i do so i cant really speak for you, but just dont tell her right out, and if you do tell her give her some time. But you might just have to move on, and respect her desicion, if you are a true friend you would.
hope i helped :]
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How to tell her? I suggest words. Or maybe a cake.
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There are many ways to go about this. I will give you a few. Caitlin had a good idea about asking her who she likes. But if she's not sure you like her, she may not say she likes you either. Here's a way to tell if she may like you: she blushes a little when she tells you, or she says someone's name that is similar to you. If she says someone who is completely different than you, then she may not like you in a romantic way. But you can never be too sure about that one though because girls can like two guys that are completely and utterly different. For example, I like two guys. One has blondish, shaggy hair, hazel eyes, likes hip hop, cars and drawing and is really shy and has a small group of close friends. The other one has short dark hair and eyes that are almost black, is really outgoing and mingles with pretty much every group, tells jokes nonstop and would rather be hiking than be inside drawing.
You could also gage her feelings about you by mentioning a girl you think is cute or pretty or something like that. You may have to do this a few times in order to read her right. If she likes you, she will probably get this sad or disappointed look in her eyes, but you have to be quick or you'll miss it. She may agree with you but probably won't look you in the eye if she likes you because she may be afraid to start crying. If she doesn't like you back, she may just agree or disagree with your choice and joke around about it before telling you who she likes.
The only surefire way to know if she likes you back is to just lay your heart in your open palm and hope she gives you hers back.
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This is tough. i qill give you an example of my life.
On the last day of school i asked this guy that i really like who he likes. he told me that if he told me then i had to tell him. at that moment i knew i had to take the risk and tell him i like him. and then when he told me who he likes i was shocked! he likes me too! i told him and we have been together ever since. so about a year.
i guess what i am trying to tell you is... dont go right out and tell her but ask who she likes. and this is the hard part. if she doesnt like you then you know her feelings. but if she does then right on!
good luck... hope i helped. if you have anymore questions go ahead and inbox me.
caitlin1492
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This is kind of a tough situation, because it could go either way. You could tell her, and she could either tell you she feels the same, or it could just make things feel weird in your friendship. Or, you could not tell her and never know how she feels. Sometimes, you just have to take a risk for something that you really want. So I think that if you really, really like this girl, you should go for it & tell her. It may make things weird for a while if she doesn't feel the same, but I'm sure it would blow over. You'll never know until you try.
Good luck :]
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Wait a few days or weeks and see if you still feel the same way. If you do, then go for it- you have nothing to lose. If she likes you- then great! If not, you can still be friends.
Dont worru- go for it!
Tell her-
"Hey(name), well lately I have had some feelings about you I did not have before, and I wanted to tell you that I like you, a lot"
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