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my daddy
okay so my dad is like in looove with his new wife. we just bought a boat and he told me that it was for him and his wife to spend time together. i mean all they do is spend time together. never with me and my brother.and she doesn't really stay home when it is time to like clean or work. and then again today we saw a little tiny boat and he said that, that was what we were going to get then i was like then we all couldn't go on and he was like it would only be me and my wife. i am just sick of it and it bothers me because before her i was daddys little girl. i miss that. what should i do.
sorry its soo long and weird.
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I understand how you feel. Your dad definitely hasn't forgotten you and your brother, he's just not balancing the time he spends with you correctly.
As hard as it seems, the only real solution is to just come out and say,"When can we hang out again like old times, dad?" or "Hey dad, I'd love to go on the boat with you sometime" something along those lines.
I really sympathize for you about being his little girl and you always will be, but it just won't be the same sadly. You just have to let him get all of this spending time with his new wife until they finally just come out of that honeymoon phase. Trust me, things will change eventually. But you should speak up and remind your dad that you don't want to be left behind.
-TheTeenGirl
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First, you will always be your daddy's little girl. Your dad is just excited and happy. It's like when you wish for something for so long, then you finally get it. You don't want to put it down because it makes you so happy. Your dad sounds like he has been lonely for awhile and the need for another adult was overdue. He loves you and your brother, so don't ever forget that. It sounds like you and your dad have a great relationship, try talking to him and let him know how you feel. Sometimes people (even parents) forget to pay attention to what's going on around them. Remember, he is human.
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aw. just tell him. i know it might be hard too, but if you want something to change, tell him. He'll so how you fell, and he'll put it in concideration.
Just take time and be patient beofre anything else happens.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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