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should i stay with him? 14/f
well at the moment i have been in bootcamp the last 2 months. ive had the same boyfriend "terry" for the last 2 months. my question is should i stay with him even though i only get to talk 2 him maybe once every 2 months? i dont know if i trust him completely, but enough to have a reltionship. i love him to death but maybe being seperated would be better so we both can be free, but i cant let him go. plus he wont let me go either.Also, we both do not want to see eachother in a relationship with anyone else. what should i do?
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If you both really want to be together don't let go. You could take a break where you are just friends for a month or two and try out seeing other people. If it doesn't feel right you will know that you two should stay together. ]
it sounds like you both want to stay together, so i think that is what you should do. if he doesnt want to let you go, i doubt he is cheating on you. or he would be fine with letting you go since he never sees you. it sounds like you guys like each other a lot, and dont want to be with anybody else, so i think that you should stay together. ]
Well i would say try your relationship for a little longer. Make specific days that you guys will call and talk with each other. Really try your hardest to make it work out. Then see how much he puts into it, if he is all for it, and does everything humanly possible to talk with you kinda of a thing, then you should totally keep him. If he starts to fade, and isnt all for it, like he only calls after to 1000 time youve reminded him, then youll know its time to move on. And remember your 14, youll probably want to experience a lot of guys, so try dating some one new, go on a break with him, but if you cant stand not being with him give it another try..
hope things work out! =]
♥ April ]
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