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My friend i dont no if shes really my Friend or if she is ju
13/Female
I have a "friend” Samantha. We have a good past except sometimes over the last few years she has treated me bad. Ecample: Brenda ( a friend of ours) got mad at me and she became BFF with Brenda
The other day Samantha took me off her top 8 on myspace when she had all her other friends on her top 8. She has called me a biotch sevaral times now to the point where its not even in a lovingly or jockingly way
Well a few days ago on MySpace Samantha commented me and said "Hey Biotch "
Should I respond ? I think she knows I'm kind of upset with her. If I respond what should I say? Why do you think I should or shouldnt respond? I strongly believe that you should always keep a steady relationship with someone in case you need them in your future 1 day. But Im douting whether or not to respond nicely
Something I could say would be like "Hey" - keep it simple and short. Nothing more if I respond to her unless reccomended by Advicenators
Thanks for your help<333 I rly aprecciate it
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So you're not sure if the "Hey Biotch" comment was meant in a joking way or a mean way, right? Hmmmm... if it was meant in a mean way, and you respond with something friendly, she's just gonna think you're okay with her being a jerk to you. But you don't want to say something mean, in case she was actually just kidding.
i think my response would be:
hey biotch! lol
That way, if she was joking, then you'll be joking right back. But if she was being mean, you're showing that you can come right back at her with it.
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You could be like "um do you have a problem with me or something? :/" but maybe a little less rude sounding then that XD she might be messing around or maybe shes just..changed.
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I think you have it right. Respond, because that's the civil thing to do but keep it simple and straight forward. Assume the best for the time being. She hasn't attacked you, and you don't want to be percieved as the person throwing the first punch.
Leave it at "Hey" and don't add any follow-up questions like "How are ya?" or anything like that if you don't really want to hear from her.
You don't seem to feel you have any reason to pick a fight with her, so don't bother and don't leave her an opening.
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