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is he using me
okay so ive liked this guy for a year now. we dated last summer, but he broke up with me for different reasons. im still not over him, he meant a lot to me and still does. were best friends and he knows that i like him. hes bisexual and he has a girlfriend, whom hes been dating for 3 months now. she lets him have sex with other guys and she doesnt count that as cheating. the only thing is he had sex with me twice while going out with her. he acts like he likes me and he gives me mixed signals. for the past year he has liked me on and off but weve never done anything about it. generally he does want to have sex a lot with anyone that will give it to him, but im still trying to figure out if he had sex with me because he likes me, or just because he thinks its fun and just wanted it from someone. its really confusing. i cant ask my friends about it cuz theyre friends with him too. so if anyone knows please help me!
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He sounds like he's using you. He knows you like him and is using that to his advantage and getting you to sleep with him. If he really liked you he would've broken up with his girlfriend by now. Forget about him.
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no man,he had sex with you because he knows you like him...he knows you wouldnt say no,he knows youd do anything to get as much as a sign from him that he likes you so he used you.he doesnt like you,cuz if he did,he wouldnt be with his girlfreind now...and i really think you should get over him completly because even IF he leaves his girl for you he will leave you for another and youll end up broken in the end.You should totally cross this guy out from your life and be mad happy that hes not with you because if he was...hed turn your life into a mexican soap opera....
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This is probably hard for you to have a guy that you still very much love and yet he's giving you mixed signals and messing with your head.
I wouldn't exactly say he's using you, but I definitely suggest you stop having sex with him or kissing him while he has a girlfriend. If he really cared and liked you, he would have tossed his girlfriend of 3 months for you. That probably upsets you a lot because it's not what you want to hear, but honestly, this guy can't make up his mind and you deserve a guy who is sure about you, don't you think?
So, I think what you should do is just maintain a friendship with him and hang out with other friends and take time away from him. The more time you spend away from him, you'll get better and you 'll get over him faster.
-TheTeenGirl
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he's using you; stop letting him.
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