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Jealosy
I have a bf... and our relashonship is going really well... but my BEST FRIEND keeps acting all mushy around him infront of me, and i know its to make me jealos
signed, Jealos over Jack
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talk to her about it be calm and say like well im goin out with him and dont want him comin between us but you have to realize im with him not you so could you please not flirt with him
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Don't let your best friend make you jealous. He is YOUR boyfriend. He likes YOU. If he was interested in her, he would be going out with her. She is most likely jealous of you. If someone is acting that way around her friend's bf, that shows a lot of immaturity and he won't find that attractive, so don't worry about it.
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First off, tell your best friend what their doing. And find out why.
Some people flirt without even noticing. If this is the case, just give your friend a nudge or some kind of sign so the person know to back off. They should understand that you feel uncomfortable when they flirt with your boyfriend.
However, your friend might have a crush on your boyfriend. If this is happening, don't be mad at anyone. No one can be held responsible for how they feel towards another... these things just sort of occur uncontrollably. Just remind your friend that the boy is your boyfriend and you don't care if she likes him just as long as she respects your boundaries and doesn't do anything to try to break you and your boyfriend up. Talking about things will help as long as you remain even and calm and not let your temper flare.
Best of wishes - Dida
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your friend could mean nothing by it,
i find it's easist to call people out on things when you do it in an 'oh im just kidding around manner'.
'oh, if i didn't know better i'd think you're flirting with jack, ha ha'
it usually makes people think twice about their actions without them getting defensive and starting drama.
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He needs to talk to her and tell her that she needs to cut out the mushy behavior and flirting because he's not interested and is taken. If that doesn't do it both of you need to tell her that together.
If she's a friend she shouldn't be doing this and neither of you should tolerate it for one more second. It's inappropriate behavior out of anyone.
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