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Age: 20
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Last Update: July 28, 2008
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I'm going to be 16 in September. I'm having irregularty in my period but I thought after a couple of years it will become more regular. Last year it was pretty much on the dot but this summer it hasn't. I've had my period since I was almost 12.
On May 18 I got my period and it was my normal 30ish days between each period. However my recent one was only 24 days after on June 16. Now it's July 27...much longer than a month and I still haven't recieved it. Last week I've recieved some blood and I'm still getting it. Any suggestions? (link)
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don't stress.
anything from changes in eating habits, exercise, stress etc etc can effect your cycle. it's completely normal, the only way i got mine under control was going on the pill. your body is still undergoing a lot of changes at 16.
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ok. so there is this guy named jeffrey and he and i have been on and off liking each other for over two years. we would talk, become really good friends and usually ending up making out or something then we would just stop talking and eventually he would call me again and the process would repeat. so we stated talking again in march and in may he ended up taking my virginity. he knew i was a virgin and he was reallly sweet about it. well he just graduated and he drinks all the time and does some drugs. and we arnt talking. i hevnt talked to him in a month or so and im really upset because i feel used. i know he didnt use me because he is too sweet and i know he cares about me but im still so hurt and depressed. what should i do?
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hunny, the best advice anyone can give you right now, is "forget him".
i know it's harsh, but that is one of the hardest lessons i've never learned.
being young is about happiness, and the key to happiness is surounding yourself with only people who make you happy. (i mean, for me it was cutting off bad friends who bring too much drama, and only dating guys that really make you laugh-for you it may be something different)
really, I'm sure "using you" was not is intension but guys will be guys, and they're all fucking idiots (excuse my french), and they think with their dicks, not their heads.
best advice about men: "he's just not that into you" -sex and the city-
and it's something that is hard for us to accept because really, as women we're pretty fabulous.
but bottom line is, if he's causing you more stress than happiness, screw that, I'm sure there are tons of guys who would love to spend their time on you. you just need to believe in yourself(ew, excuse my cliche), and be confident that you ARE a good catch, and don't bring yourself down to his level.
best of luck hunny. (oh and don't call/text/message him first. i know it's hard, but it's the best thing)
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Hey everyone, I'm back for more answers from you awesome knowledgeable folks. =D
So, the kitty I got Sunday has been incredibly sweet, greets me in the morning rubbing up against my legs and purring, is eating now, thank goodness, and using her litterbox faithfully, though I don't think the litter brand I have is that good (any suggestions are welcome). She would be the perfect kitten, except for the fact that I feel like she's getting kind of violent.
I don't know if she's teething, or if she needs her teeth brushed because her gums are itchy or what (I got her a toothbrush, she was fine with the paste, but won't open her mouth), but she seems to try to bite everything now. When I first got her, she gave kitty kisses and like, licked your fingers, maybe put them in her mouth for a second but never bit down.
She hasn't actually bitten me yet, but I don't want her to think that's okay.
My friend says her family's kittens "chewed on [them] too," and that they outgrew it, so maybe mine will too. I dunno, I just don't want her to think that's okay, y'know? When animals snap at me I get kinda scared, even if they're as little as my Luna.
She also squirms and fights when I try to hold her. She's fine being picked up, but if you hold her she squirms and pushes against you. I think she tried to bite me one time, but she missed. My other friend's cat was like that, but she never tried to bite. She just struggled really hard to get away.
How do you train a cat who won't eat treats? (Maybe the treats are too big for her? She's 11 weeks old)
Any thoughts? I'm so new at this, and really glad I have you guys to ask. Lol
-Siren =) (link)
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I've had cats my whole life, and your kitten is being completely normal.
the cat is always going to want to bite.. i think they just like the feeling and it's also how they play.... if she get's to the point that she's hurting when she's biting you need to be firm and tell her "NO". i have a cat that is just over 2 years old, and he just likes to chew on your finger, it doesnt hurt, he just chews and purrs.
also, cats all have their own personalities, a lot of cats like their own space, they like to do their own thing, and they like to do it on their own time... if they want to cuddle, yeah, then they'll cuddle-- but they don't like being forced into anything.
with the kitty litter thing, i have issues with perfumed litters (they give me headaches... and i dont think they're good for the little kitties either...) so i've found amazing alternatives to clay litter, which are also eco-friendly. look at your local store for a corn based litter, or even the crystals (theyre usually clear, and suck in the pee, so when they are yellow you know they need to be changed). they might not keep the oder away as long as others that mask the smells, but really, you should be changing the litter every couple of days to avoid this anyway. I like corn product litter because you can just flush the clumps down the toilet.
-- You should also stop trying to train your cat.lol it's a lost case.... like i said earlier, cat's like to do their own thing, they'll get bored of what youre trying to do. and treats have a lot of calories in them.
hope that was everything.... cats are really a handful, but when they feel like giving you some love it's very rewarding:)
oh and ps. the last person to reply talked about declawing the cat, PLEASE DON'T. it's very very painful and uncomfortable for the cat, imagine living without your fingernails. :( would you really want to do that to your furry friend?
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when u put a tampon on ur supposed to put it in at an angle or it hurts. but in different sex positions, well it "goes in" different ways. how does that work? (link)
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because youre turned on during sex, your vagina walls expend, making it much easier for the penis to go in,
but of course there are lots of angles that would hurt a lot if the angle of the penis was off...
but really, our body's are made for sex to comfortable.
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where can i find info on the costumes made for the movie 10, 000 bc? i am also looking for a clear close up whole sized image of the dress camil belle wore in the movie when she was about to be sacrificed... i tried looking for it but i could only find one shot and it wasn't very clear.... anyone knows? (link)
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Honestly, I don't think anyone is going to be bragging about the costumes from this extremely historicly inaccurate movie.....
http://camilla-belle.net/gallery1/displayimage.php?album=204&pos=20
this is the best picture i could find, i think it shows a little better than the typical one of her running towards the camera. it's a pretty dress, but a terrible representation of a costume for the time period...
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um okay i didnt know what to put this under
but like whats the clit?
cuz i dont know. haha just curious (link)
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best tool ever:
www.urbandictionary.com
tells you more slang than you'd ever need to know.
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I need help for a halloween costume. I'm going to my older brother's halloween party and I need something REALLY original and/or funny. I tried looking at other questions for costumes, but everything people said were unoriginal and overdone. I need something that no one will expect, because the people at this party (who are my brother's friends and I know them pretty well) are the random type. I can't go to the party wearing something stupid and unoriginal. It can be anything really, just not anything that's overdone. For example, my brother is being "Teradactylman" where he'll modify a Batman costume to be like a teradactyl. Yeah, he's weird, but I need something original like that. Please help, because I'm quite unoriginal myself and google didn't help. Thanks. (link)
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ok... soo it would help to know if you were a guy or girl....
since i am a girl, im better at girl costumes..
going from what KellyHappy said a girl i know is going as britney spears and is tying a toy doll to her... so very irresponsible.
also, i girl i know dressed up as mary kate olson last year, and wore a skeleton suit with normal clothes other top, blonde wig and big sunglasses,
you could pick any famous actress/model who is too skinny
maybe you could think of other good satires of idiot celebs, it's always good for a laugh
also.. my sister was telling me about some guys she saw at a bar, 3 of them were attached together as a row of foosball players. they were all dressed all in red, and were attached together with what looked like broom handles...
so if you had someone to dress up with thats pretty cool. awkward.. but cool.
i had very manly friend dress as a male nurse one year...very funny, and another guy friend dress as an 80s arobics instuctor, we're talking bright green spandex suit, sweatband, headset.
hope that helped, i know its hard to find something original.
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As you probably know, on facebook you can remove friends. But can you block those friends after you remove them? What I mean by block, is so they can't see you have a facebook or anything. (link)
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Go to the "privacy" tab that is always located on the top right of your facebook screen, near the bottom of the screen there is a "Block People" section, you type in their name.
it reads
"If you block someone, they will not be able to search for you, see your profile, or contact you on Facebook. Any ties you currently have with a person you block will be broken (friendship connections, relationships, etc)."
so make sure that is really what you want before you block them
you could put them on your limited profile list, so they can only see what you want them to, and nothing else.
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on facebook is there a way to hide your mini feed from everyone? (link)
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there is a "Privacy" tab on the top right of your facebook screen at all times. click it, and then "News Feed and Mini-Feed" you can deside what you want your news feed to say, if you unclick everything then nothing will show up on your mini-feed
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I love the way "scene" styles look. For example I love the way Kiki Kannibal and Audrey Kitching look. Does anyone have any tips on how I can acheive a look like that without spending boatloads of money??
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I have no idea where you live, but if you can get there, H&M's 'divided' line would suit your needs perfectly, and the prices are very good
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Is there anywhere that I can find the theme song to Gossip Girl? I really like it. Is it even a song and if it is, does anyone know the name of it? (link)
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a quick google search says:
Aqualung - "Something To Believe In"
i've never caught the beginning of the show....if it isn't right, well, this is a fab song anyways
this is the site i found:
http://hitsusa.com/blog/125/gossip-girls-theme-song/
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okay, i'm not sure if this is allergies.. or this is genetics... because, my skin is starting to itch.. especially on my legs, and i'm beginning to get this little bumps. they're not like.. HUGE. but they're little... and my dad when he was younger he'd have health problems, like.. he had the same thing, but his bumps were red and on his back and stuff. and my sister also has skin problems... she has red bumps all over her body.. and they itch or something like that.. and they're like blotchy or whatever. and i'm scared that i might have them, but i don't know.. what can you do to make the itchiness & bumpiness go away? ... or is it just allergies.. HELP?! (link)
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obvoiusly, im not a doctor, so first off, you should show your father or sister the bumps..see what they think, or if you don't want to do that, than visit a doctor,
but honestly, itchy bumps on your legs? sounds a lot like razor burn.... try a new shaving cream, a new blade.
buttt it's best to see a doctor to know for sure
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I'm 19/f Canada.
I'm in the process of figuring out my life and would love to travel in the spring, does anyone know anything about youth travel groups I could hook up with, or any sites for youths looking for other youths to travel with?
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since everyone else is useles i'll answer my own question with my days of research:
great list of tours for amazing prices:
http://www.tourvacationstogo.com/adventure_tours.cfm
pretty much any location and budget you could ask for:
http://www.gapadventures.com/
student travel:
http://eftours.com/
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Where is somewhere online that I can order a pretty decent sized book bag, that's cute? Possibly random and decorative. I need one, but I don't know where to begin looking. I don't want anything like Abercrombie, I find them too original. Something... awesome. suggestions? (link)
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I have no idea your style, but try:
(1) www.urbanoutfitters.com
they have tons of unique bags that would be big enough to use as a book bag.
i love the totes at:
(2) www.2freshpetunias.com
(3) www.modcloth.com has lots of mod-retro-indie stuff
(4) www.fredflare.com is just awesome
but also, surf around
(5)http://indiefriendly.com/fashion-and-accessories/
there are tons of great designers
Hope theses fit your style and budget!
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Does anyone know where i can get ripped skinny jeans like just a little ripped though
ANd im in Australia sydney =]
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If you can't find what you want in the store, It's super easy to rip your own jeans, I've done it a couple times. you can make the rips where ever and however big you want.
all you need is a shape knife or blade of some sort, and just shave the denim....
I'm not sure the best way to explain, but you just rub the knife on the jeans(pretty hard) and it will end up making a whole in the demin that looks like what you'd buy at a store (with the white horizontal fibers)
it works best with older jeans that are already worn in.
Hope that works for you, its a great way to make jeans unique to you. xo
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okay so i had well tried to have sex with this boy. He was really small which i highly doubt is normally small. But anyway we tried to have sex and the condom broke before we even started. Then he asked if i wanted to try without one and me being really drunk i said okay. It wouldnt go in so he told me he was going to go to the store and get one He got pulled over. So he never ended up going to the store. We never tried when he got back. And i havent talked to him in days. Why it wasnt my fault. I have a strong feeling he was on coke and couldnt get hard or something. Why wont he talk to me? I didnt do anything wrong. Is he embarrassed or.. ehhh i really like him what do i do (link)
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to start i'd like to say i dont think this coked out, impaired driver is worth anyones time.
guys are idiots and we'll never be able to understand how their minds work. he might have only wanted to sleep with you at the time because it was in front of him.
he could very well not be interested in you, and guys don't seem to find it worthwhile to just admit "im not interested" they always have excuses but will take the ass they can get
but honestly, he doesnt sound like a catch to me
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i think i have a yester infection but im imbaressed to tell anyone...like my mom or the doctor help.
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girl, you gotta tell someone
maybe you can find a walk-in clinic so you don't have to see your family doctor if it makes it easier.
also, your family doctor isn't allowed to talk about your visit with anyone, so don't be worried about them telling your mom.
also, it's something your mom has more than likely been through, and it's not as scary as you think when you actually say it, it's your mom, she wont look at your any different.
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What exactly is Feng Shui [ fung-shway] ?
Is it good for you?
Does it bring any kind of luck?
Can it help you spiritually ?
Is it easy to learn?
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in a nut shell,
feng shui is the chinese art of placement of objects to channel the flow of chi, which is the natural energy in our environments.
the right flow of energy is suposed to bring good health and prosperity.
the purpose of feng shui is to bring balance, harmony and comfort to one's environment, and then, in turn to one's life.
It's actually pretty interesting stuff, I suggest buying a book on it, or googling it to find out more.
it's interesting how bad feng shui actually affects you on a subconicous level
like...
sitting with your back to the door
or, junk under your bed
or just clutter in general
or low ceilings
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I have a bf... and our relashonship is going really well... but my BEST FRIEND keeps acting all mushy around him infront of me, and i know its to make me jealos
signed, Jealos over Jack (link)
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your friend could mean nothing by it,
i find it's easist to call people out on things when you do it in an 'oh im just kidding around manner'.
'oh, if i didn't know better i'd think you're flirting with jack, ha ha'
it usually makes people think twice about their actions without them getting defensive and starting drama.
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what does it mean " boys like you are a dime a dozen" and yes i know its from a song (link)
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#1... KF: no
#2. dime a dozen means "easy to come by, next to worthless",
so a boy that's a dime a dozen is not special or unique and not worth your time:)
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