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Okay, let's make this short, sweet and too the point. I probably won't be spending a lot of time making this all pretty and what not but I still am a bit of an HTML geek for a 14 year old girl =) I have an older brother, an older sister, and a dog. I live with my mom and dad (my siblings are at college most of the year) and my dog in the same town I've lived in since I was born. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, and I'm smart. I can act a bit ditsy at times but that's mostly for show, I'm a complete nerd. I will be attending camp for a few weeks July 8th-27th but I will be on on the weekends. I have the best friends ever, though I have gone through quite a bit of drama to get to where I am. I am going into high school after the sumemr and I cannot wait. The only thing I am dreading is the fact I'm taking all honors classes =/ whatever, life's good. I'm single and have someone in mind. Love forever - Dida (my nickname)
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I have a bf... and our relashonship is going really well... but my BEST FRIEND keeps acting all mushy around him infront of me, and i know its to make me jealos

signed, Jealos over Jack (link)
First off, tell your best friend what their doing. And find out why.
Some people flirt without even noticing. If this is the case, just give your friend a nudge or some kind of sign so the person know to back off. They should understand that you feel uncomfortable when they flirt with your boyfriend.
However, your friend might have a crush on your boyfriend. If this is happening, don't be mad at anyone. No one can be held responsible for how they feel towards another... these things just sort of occur uncontrollably. Just remind your friend that the boy is your boyfriend and you don't care if she likes him just as long as she respects your boundaries and doesn't do anything to try to break you and your boyfriend up. Talking about things will help as long as you remain even and calm and not let your temper flare.
Best of wishes - Dida


Does anyone kno the lyrics for White Picket Dreams the "unreleased" Solange Knowles song?
Thanks! (link)
White Picket Fence - Solange Knowles


Ba Ba ba ba ba ba ba ba ba
ba ba ba ba ba ba ba
Ba Ba ba ba ba ba ba ba ba
ba ba ba ba ba ba ba

im sittin here lookin at this old canvas
and the picture, looks so different, from you
yes it does (yes it does)
maybe its time to go back to the drawing board

cause its likely that the man not true
is fictional

its possible i dreamed such a dream thats so far away
and the blame that you weep is warm enough
its possible we all want a dream thats so far away
and my white picket dreams are warm enough
oh yeah

I'm lying in the dark but it's pitch bright,
'Cause there's yellow in my soul,
And it brings, it brings me hope, [?]
I figured I'd be married young with two offspring,
But this timing and they don't wait for you [?]
to carry on [carry on]

so I wait for the day [for the day]
when this frame shows a face, gives a name,
And you say, that you will, that you will,
We can build, we can still see it,

its possible i dreamed such a dream thats so far away
and the blame that you weep is warm enough
its possible we all want a dream thats so far away
and my white picket dreams are warm enough
oh yeah

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
ha ha ha ha ha ha
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
ha ha ha ha ha ha

And you know I want that baby
What you'll do, keep on bringing me joy,
And you know we'll have that baby,
I'll give you that picture hon and so much more,
And you know i want that baby
And you know we'll have that baby
That white picket dream will paint it,
the house on the hills with our name on the door,
And you know i want that baby,
And you know we'll have that baby,
That white picket dream of mine will show me how in no time,

i dreamed such a dream thats so far away
and the blame that you weep is warm enough
its possible we all want a dream thats so far away
and my white picket dreams are warm enough
oh yeah


^^these may be wrong because most of it is what I think she said =) I hope it helps though
Love Always - Dida


(15/f)
I have this friend, let's call him "Denis". We've been really good friends for quite some time. People are of divided opinion about us; a third of them think we're brother and sister, another third thinks that we're a cute couple, and the last third wants to kill me for being close to him(sadly, he has a fanclub, which he remains oblivious to).
I've come to realize, about a year or so ago, that I love him. And, I think the feeling could be reciprocated. People have told him to "Stop flirting with (me), and answer my question", causing him to shut up, and if I didn't know better, I would say he was blushing. And sometimes he stares me in the eyes for a long time, goes to say something, but stops before he does. He's a really sweet guy.
The thing is, his parents are divorced. And recently he found out that he is going to move in with his dad. His dad lives on the other side of the country. Three timezones away. I'm at a loss of what to do. Should I tell him how I feel and hope for the best. Risking breaking our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way. Or should I just keep quiet, and just hope that I'll eventually get over him? Key word: eventually.

I appreciate all advice, and thank you in advance.
Sorry about the length, thank you for your time. (link)
I agree with the other set of advice. If he really is as sweet as you say and you are such good friends, even if he doesn't feel the same for you, you two should be able to stay friends. If you cannot stay friends because you like him, maybe he's not worth your friendship. If he does like you, you're all set. The worst thing that could happen is you could stop being friends which may happen anyway because he is moving. The best of luck - Dida




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