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Its about a boy
ok i like this boy and he likes me to he told that to my face and then said to me that he didnt want to go out with me because he thinks ima going to get as fat as my sister but im not and my sister aint even that big so some one help me and please dont tell me to forget him theres other fish in the sea because i cant forget him its like hes part of me now and i cant get away from him i see him every where i go and i cant avoid him so please some one help me before i go crazy!!!!!!:[
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Are you kidding me? Wow, this guy is an ASSHOLE. Don't put up with that. I know that you really like him, probably a lot of it has to do with the fact that he is older. He isn't worth it. Think of what he would be like if you did go out. He would constantly be judging your appearance. It will seriously hurt your self esteem, and you DO NOT need that. Especially not at your age. It will be hard, and I know that you don't want to hear this, but you really need to distance yourself from him. It will benefit you more to make this one hard decision than to deal with the problems it will cause you down the road.
Good Luck.
Sarah
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You are 13 years old and hes 15 & worried you will become "fat" ? First off he isnt looking for a girl friend, hes looking for arm candy.. someone he can flaunt in front of his guy friends. Yeah yeah, you don't want me to tell you this but still.. you dont need him. If he can't except you (no matter if you become "chubby" in the future) then you don't need him. You need to find yourself someone who will like you for you and not your weight. You need to tell him that he needs to like you & all of you now & in the future, and if he can't execpt that.. then move on find someone who does. His mistake not yours. If that happens just tell yourself how much better you are then him, and how one day your going to find someone who likes you for u & not your weight & how dumb he will look & feel for not being a nice guy & for only looking for arm candy.
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Okay first of all if hes worried your going to get "fat" you don't need to be with a guy like that AT ALL. So basically hes saying if yall did happen to date and you gained weight he would no longer date you. You deserve someone who isn't shallow. Your 13 right? Focus more on school and doing things for yourself. You have the rest of your life for boys.
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