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ok here what it is, my ex-girlfriend wants to get back together with me, and i want to get back together with her, i still love her so much and she said the same thing, but after she went to VA she had some guys hitting on her, she said that me and her were back together and now shes not sure, i don't know what to do, i love her so much and i don't want to lose her.
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I don't know your ages, but age factor has alot to do with it. Younger kids and teenagers are prone to "self-satisfaction" as a children are. It's impulsive to react to whatever, and that's normal. A guy/girl hits on you, you're flattered, maybe attracted to them too, and react impulsively without thinking of previous comittments. (i.e. you)
If older than a teenager, then she should have honored her "comittment" to you and blew the dudes off.
But how did you find out about other guys "hitting" on her? She told you? if so, then she was being totally open and honest with you, up front. You have to consider that.
You were apart from one another, and the random dating and flirting, well, things like that happen alot of times when apart from each other.
If you love her, let it slide off your back, put it in the past, continue from today and go on with your relationship with her.
If she is unsure of the two of you, then she's not ready to settle down into a committment.
Either wait for her to be, knowing she is seeing other guys (probably) and be patient with your fingers crossed, or, date too, and if it was meant to be, it will-- if not, then it won't no matter how hard you try.
You can't force it. (it would only bee temporary, and doomed for failure.)
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ok.....'any time spent thinking, is time spent wasting'...if she means alot to you, then i think you should show her how much she means to you. but try not to seem to needy or you know (i'm lost for words), but, just show her all the good things she'll be missing out on if she doesn't pick you, give her abit of taste of how things would be if she's with you.
but you know how they say 'what ever's meant to happen will happen no matter how hard you try'..and if she doesn't pick you, its her loss right? and you seem like a good guy, you'll hopefully find someone better, so there's nothing to worry about. there is another saying: 'if you love someone let them go, if they return to you it's meant to be, if not then that love was never yours'
but think positive and hopefully she'll make the right choice by being with you.....good luck!x
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ok if she really likes you back she wont go with them if she dosent and she like them then shes not good enough for you and you should tell her that.
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Calm down and let her make a descision. Dont pressure her or anything. She just dont know what she wants right now. So just give her time.
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