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my friend. grr. gets on my last freaking nerve. she makes up FAKE screenames, and IMs these ugly guys, that are like total losers. like they smoke do drugs. and just total social outcasts. so, she was 'pretending' to set up him and her 'friend' who is 'her' and then im like, well let me be this fake girl, so she doesn't talk just like you. because, i was just thinking, yano i dont want this kid to find out, and her reputation gets messed up. and then shes like nooo, i wanna talk to him. and im like but you already do? and i dont know.
dont you think thats honestly patheic? that she does this stuff? i mean, and then she never lets me say anything to any of them. like she has like 10 screenames, of all of her fake friends. and stuff.
what should i do?
im kinda mad at her right now.
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Don't worry. My friend does that too! She IMs these guys and says,"Oh Jen (me) likes you! Do you want to go out with her?" And she thinks that is the funniest thing in the world! But I find it annoying and inmature! Is that what your friend does? If so, tell her that it's really annoying when she does that, and say,"If you keep that up, I'm going to block you and never talk to you again." I know it's mean, and I know it's a threat, but you said she gets on your last nerve. I hope this helped. Don't worry, my friend does that too.
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Are you annoyed because she is playing a silly game online or because she wont let you join?
Let it go. It really is pretty immature and uninteresting but it's her thing, there is really no reason for you to stick your nose in it unless you think she is in danger. You've told her what you think of it, so now just don't talk to her about her online antics and you'll be just fine.
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I guess it alright for you to get mad at her, but i think your friend is probably one of those people who like to get attention, which maybe because she never got attention as a child..i'm not sure if this is the case, because i don't know anything about your friend.
i suggest you should talk to her calmly, and try to ask her, are these the type of guys you really want to go out with. Maybe she feels that she's not good enough to ever find a sensible guy, so as a friend it should be your duty to find out why.
Thats all i can say, i think you should give your own advice to your friend. If she rejects your offer to help, then just let her be, she will realise sooner or later what she's getting herself into if she's trying to get in contact with these kind of guys. The only thing you can do is try to talk to her, if she doesn't listen she will suffer the consequences. we only give advice and help to the ones who want to be helped if she doesn't its her problem, as long as you do your part. hope this works take care.
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thats so immature to even make up a fake screenname.yeah sure its funn to mess around with guys sometimes like that but to set them up.if people find out it was her then her rep is screwed.you should tell her that its immature and to stop. good luck hun.
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