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okay so im only thirteen. but yesterday or two days ago..i dont remmeber...my boyfriend and i made out for the first time, and he really liked it and i did too i guess but he kept making out with me in public or like in front of his friends, and i dont know if hes because he really wants to make out with me, or he wants to show off to his friends. and i dont like to make out with him in front of people, because i dont really like having an "audience", but at the same time i dont mind because i love kissing him. how should i tell him that and how should i figure out if hes just trying to show off or not?
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Basically, he's trying to show off. Simply tell him you don't like making out in front of other people. If he doesn't like it, break up with him because that means he's just using you.
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Tell him you don't like making out infront of his friend you arent very comfortable,but you said you dont mind because you like kissing him maybe just give him one peck and thats it tell him im sure he will understand and tell him you dont mind just not infront of people.
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Let him know you aren't comfortable with that. Do not be afraid of confronting him about it either - you both need to keep an open line of communication. Also, if you feel that he is doing that to show you off, then ask him if that is what he is doing. I know what you might think: that even if he did he would deny it. Again, with the open line of communication comes trust, so whatever his answer is, let him know that you would not want him to be doing that anyway. Just let him know how you feel about this and everything else - that is how a relationship works. You might not have thought of it, but since you go along with it right now, maybe he thinks that you would prefer to kiss in public as opposed to not. So communicate and talk to him about it and try not to freak out about it. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Tell him no in public. If he has any kind of a problem with it its because he is showing off.
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