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Okay well im a 14 year ols female and my boyfriend think we are ready to have sex and i was wondering , what do you think i can do to pleaseure him
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Id reccomend starting with a scalp massage, working down to a shoulder massage, then have him lie down on his stomach and walk on his back, just be careful not to put your full weight on his spine.
Seriously though, dont have sex. If you're coming here to ask us questions like this you are nowhere near ready.
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First, honey, you need to establish if pleasing him is what you really want to do. And if it is what you want to do, then are you doing it b/c you want to? Or are you simply doing it b/c you're afraid that you'll lose him? If you're going to do something like this, which is a big step, then you need to establish where you are emotionally and whether you're satisfied with your questionable desires to pleasure your boyfriend. To me, you're simply too young. But, if you want to do it, then make sure that if and when you decide to do it, that your heart or mind has no regrets or quarrels about your actions. You must think like this, for it may bother you later. And then, you must always think about the consequences of your simply pleasuring him.
You know your boyfriend and you know what pleasuring him means. Sex or oral sex, basically. The question is are you ready to have sex b/c you said," my boyfriend think we are ready to have sex...". Question is, have you established if you're ready to do so, because it's your body your life and your choice. And anyone that cares about you shouldn't make you feel, at least an inkling, that you have to pleasure them in order to keep them. Someone that cares about you wouldn't make you feel like that, even if they don't know that they're making you feel as such. Just make sure that you're ready emotionally and physically. Hope I was some help and bye.
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If you have a boyfriend that thinks that you both are ready for sex when you are only 14, I'd find a different boyfriend or tell him that it just doesn't feel right. You are only 14. You have your whole life set for you, and if you do this without taking precautions and knowing what to expect and what could happen, your life could be ruined just by this one choice. I'd look at the facts. There are more cons than pros to having sex.
What happens if the condom breaks?
What happens if you get pregnant?
What happens if you get an STD?
What happens if your parents find out? Because they eventually will...
I just don't think it's worth it, nor do I recommend having sex to anyone...
-Mariah-
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That is DISGUSTING. Where are your parents? You are 14 year olds & still a child. You don't need to be worrying about pleasuring anyone until you're much older.
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