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me & my substitue teacher!!
ok i really need some advice so plaease help.
me and my friends have become very good friends with our substitue teacher at school. he is 40. and we are 16. he works with the police (drug buster) hes a security at the mall and we visit him every day. my mom knows him threw the school system becsacz shes a teacher. hes also in the army and is going away to iraq in a few weeks and we have been plannin to go out to eat before he leaves for about 6 months now. we are with him at the mall all the time and he drives us home sometimes. he alredy brought 1 of my friends to get pizza a few nights ago. and he jus asked me to do our food thing tuesday b4 he leaves. i have no problem doing that. he knows i love to drimnk (i dc that its illegal) he asked me what kind of alcohol i want becuase hes gunna buy me some for tuesday so i can dirnk. the thing that makes me think is that even though im good friends with him and i trust him ocmpletly, it seems sketchy that hes asking me to drink. i mean, i cood think of it as him bein my own age and bein jus friends, but like idno its jus weird that since hes 40 and im 16 and im gunna be drinkin with him. i do want to get suttin to eat wit him, but idno if i shood drink. please tell me what i should do. and if i shouldnt drink wit him, what are excuses i can tell him? (i dnt wanna say cz ur 40 and its weird)thanks, all help is needed.
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Well you dont need to avoid what you like to do just because of the person, try drinking something light that couldnt possibly get you drunk, such as wine coolers. Smirnoff is really good. Or if your positive you dont want to then just make a joke out of it,like Oh Im trying to cool down on the liquor so no thanks. Or anything that wont make it seem like your thinking its because hes 40. Its nice that you and your sub can talk and stuff, but also be careful like the rides home. It seems like if someone found that out he wouldnt really be subbing to much more. But goodluck with the dinner, and I wish him well in iraq.
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I don't think you should drink with him. With that kind of age difference, it'll just lead to bad things. Just tell him you changed your mind or you're just not in the mood for any. It's nice that you're friends with him & all, but in all honesty, drinking with him [when he works with the police] and where it's illegal, is not the best idea.
Think about it.
& Good luck.
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