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OKEY WELL WHERE TO START LETS SEE..UMM iM 17 && A GiRL && i HAD SEX FOR THE FiRST TiME LiKE A WEEK AGO ON TUESDAY && iT WAS WiTH MY EX. NO WE WERENT DATiNG AT THE TiME..BUT WE JUST HAVE A VERY CONFUSiNG RELATiONSHiP [MORE LiKE BEST FRiENDS] [JUST A LiTTLE SEXUAL LOL] BUT YEAH iT THAT WAS ALL FiNE && ALL. BUT THEN LiKE FRiDAY ONLY 3 DAYS LATER i HAD SEX WiTH SOMEONE ELSE. [iT KiNDA JUST HAPPENED] && i FEEL REALLY GUiLTY ABOUT iT. BECAUSE i LOST MY ViRGiNiTY[SOMETHiNG THAT i HELD DEARLY] && WiTHiN ONE WEEK i HAVE ALREADY HAD TWO SEX PARTNERS. i JUST WANT TO KNO iF THAT MAKES ME A WHORE. SiNCE LiKE NiETHER ONE OF THEM WERE MY ACCTUAL BOYFRiEND. && NOW THE SECOND BOY THAT i ''DiD iT' WiTH DOESNT EVEN TALK TO ME [HE AVOiDS ANY CALLS OR TEXT] iM TOTALLY CONFUSED. WAT SHOULD i DO. && DOES THiS MAKE ME A BAD PERSON?? PLEASE ANSWER HONESTLY. THNX. =]]]]
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First of all I have a question to ask you, since you weren't entirely clear: did you have a boyfriend while you were sleeping with those guys?
If so, well it doesn't necessarily make you a bad person, per say, but was that really the wisest decision?
If you did not, which is what I am inclined to believe, then I honestly do not think you did anything bad. It may not have been the best thing to sleep with your ex or the other person you slept with, but since you are unattached, you didn't do anything wrong. If the people you slept with had partners, then it may not have been the greatest thing to do, but you didn't do anything wrong, and you aren't a bad person.
I think you should be clear with your ex: ask him if he's willing to take your relationship to the next level if both of you want to, but if not, tell him that you don't just want to be someone that he has sex with when he wants to.
As for the second guy you slept with, I would back off. If he's avoiding you, then he's not worth your time.
And you're not a whore, don't worry.
Good luck, and feel free to drop one in my inbox. =P
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Okay. Well it seems to be pretty common for good friends to have sex, and if your okay with that being your first time then that is great! Now about being a "whore", i would definitely disagree. For one, you're 17 and bound to make mistakes because of being sexual. I know exactly how that is. And for two, if you are able to admit that what you did was wrong then you are for sure not a whore. A whore would look at that situation and feel proud. You don't. You're only human. And it's great that you realize that it was a mistake. Now about this boy, idk if you just met him or what, but it seems like he may have just wanted you for sex and sex only. But i dunno how your relationship has been with him in the past, so thats a tough one to answer. Boys really don't make sense sometimes. But just know you are by no means a bad person. You simply made a mistake. As long as you can forgive yourself then it will be okay. I hope this helped!
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