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should i just get them both out of my life?
okay, so there is this girl who claims to be one of my good friends, you see she has been talking to my ex boyfriend and he brought up to her about going out. He recently has broken up with the girl he went out with before and after me, and i had been moving on ward and started to become interested in someone who happened to be his friend(i had no idea)Well he heard about this and imed me asking how i knew him, then later if we hooked up. I think him asking my friend out was because he was jelious of the fact i like his friend. Anywho, the girl calls me and tells me this and she goes oh how about i date him to get back at him for what he did to you (he took my virginity and completely manipulated me) I said i suppose. But i think she is just doing it because she has feelings for him, she always has even when we were dating. And we were talking and somehow sex got brought up and she asked if i would be upset with her, i told her i would be upset because she says she is my friend and she knows what he did to me. I think she has feelings for him, what do you think? Should i just cut them both out of my life?
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if you really moved on then why does it still matter?? goodluck~christina
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I had a similar situation. It does sound like your friend has feelings for your ex boyfriend. You can't control that but your aloud to be hurt by that. It also sounds like your ex boyfriend is doing this because he's jealous. If your friend is really your friend she will listen to you, and not have sex with him. If she does date him, and have sex with him and he breaks her heart you will know that you warned her. But don't say I told you so, just be there for her, like she was there for you (I think?). It's out of your control now, you warned her. If she is dating him, you don't need to be buddy buddy with her. You are aloud to ignore them both for a while. However it really doesn't sound like if they date it will last very long. So just remember you warned her and she knows what he did to you! Good luck! :)
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