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A boy i really like!
Okay there's a boy that i really like and he likes me too. I'm a 13/f btw.
It's just we're not going out for a very specific and good reason but we'd still like to spend time alone with each other. The problem is, he's my sister's best friend and so my sister doesn't want him ever going out with me. He's also a year older than me but that doesn't matter. This might get long just a warning. So my sister doesn't know that he likes me cause he doesn't want anything happening. So we kinda have a secret thing goin on. And so we were planning to go see a movie with each other but not let me sister know but i'm kinda nervous about going. When we plan stuff we usually text each other and do it so my sister doesn't know cause i wouldn't let my sister check my phone. And when i text him im carefree and i say anything i wanna say. But in person, i get really tangled up and im really shy and i don't know what to say or do. I feel as if i say something weird he'll think im stupid so i don't say anything. But that's when my sister is around. So if i can't even talk when my sister is around, i don't know what i'll do when we go watch the movie. I'm not sure if it's gonna be a date or whatnot but yeah. I want to let go but it's kinda hard. and i get nervous. So, any ideas of what to do? Please be specific, don't say anything like, just be yourself or say anything on your mind. I need specific answers please. And i would do like a double date thing but i don't really think he wants to. Thanks in advance.
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dont worry at all! a lot of girls are shy around boys, i use to be really badly. just talk about what he did that day, the summer, sports he plays. just little conversations, and just breathe and relax and dont worry! [= also you can try to be like flirty with him, hold his hand or something like that.
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I know how you feel, actually thousands of girls no how you feel!:) Think of it this way, if he likes you despite how you act when your sister is around, he must not care that your shy. The movies is a great date, because you dont have to do much talking, and you get to spend time together. Just breathe, sounds silly but it works. Just think before you say something. As far as your sister goes, she will find out. No matter how great of a secret keeper you are she will know. So I'm not telling you to tell her, but just know that she will find out someday. If it comes right tell her, it's your life not hers, and if the guy you like likes you enough then he will stand up for you. She will get over it, she's your sister. As far as letting go, that will come. The more you hang out with him the more comfortable you will be. Good luck! :)
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