Okay,
so I've liked this guy forever (since I first met him a year ago) !
We have one of those "flirty relationships", but we're just friends.
I've gone out with other people but still like him.
I know I can't have him, he's said he likes me before but he won't ask me out or take any next step forward.
I haven't talked to him all summer and I hope it stays that way.
I like him alot ! but I think the only thing that's an option is getting over him. I can't.
Plus, I feel like if I ever see him again (school) then I'll like him all over again. HELP.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Smallazn4lyfe answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 4:48 am: I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel.
The best thing that I would do is just go with the flow. I wouldn't force myself to stop liking someone. If you like someone, you just like them until they simply start to fade away, and if you do still like him, just talk to him, like him more, and soon, u and him might go out. You never know.
I hope this helped 8)
LovMe_14 answered Sunday July 15 2007, 7:54 pm: I think maybe you should Tell him u like him and stuff when u see him again, and see where things go from there. Maybe He's just shy or isnt sure of what he wants right now thats why he hasnt asked you out.Trust me im going thruogh the same thing with a guy and he told me he really like me but he never asked me out and its cause he does'nt know what he wants at the momment...=)So see what happens and uf things dont work out then just try to find a new guy thats just as good as him or even better..All hope is not lost.=) [ LovMe_14's advice column | Ask LovMe_14 A Question ]
askKARAx answered Sunday July 15 2007, 5:02 pm: just try to move on. there are plenty of other guys out there. and if you do see him again, just pretend nothing even happened and just be friends like the old times.
cheifbritneeilu answered Sunday July 15 2007, 2:29 pm: if he wont ask you out, ask him out. theres nothing wrong with that.. also you cant help it if you like someone, the only thing i can think of is just tell yourself. you dont like him. thats how i get over guys all the time. [ cheifbritneeilu's advice column | Ask cheifbritneeilu A Question ]
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