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Why did he forget i exist?
im: 14/f/
I fell madly in love with this boy. Oh yeah hes my Best Friend. It was at a party when he kick some guys ass for making fun of me. That night i couldn't stop thinking abot him. I never felt like that before about anyone,let alone a friend! But then the next day after school he brought me into the guys locker room and asked me out. It was so romantic(even if in a locker room!) I had thoughts racing through my head about those girls whos friendship is ruined cause of this same thing.
i took a deep breath and said "yes". then after about 3 months he broke up with me. IDK why though!
he never really spoke to me again! and he is still just saying "hi" and "whats up". thats it. he doesn't reaspond to my questions or my IM. I have called him and asked him whats wrong and he just says "nothing" and if i ask him why we broke up he says "you know why" and "him".
I have told him that i NEVER EVER cheated on him! he was my first BF!!!!
How can i get him to remember me agian? and talk to me? I REALLY NEED him right now cause i am going through a crisis and he was always there for me! HELP
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I had almost the same situaton, but I broke up for being stupid , not because I thought he was cheating. OK, try a different approach. Besides callig him for questioning, call him to talk and see whats up. This way you can rebuild your relationship with him, but make sure you never say anything about the relationship you guys had. And mabe the friendship will grow and he will totally forget about it. Unlike me, you might be able to get him back^^' I hope everything turns out ok. If you need anything just talk to me or anyone else who anwsered this question.
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You explained the beginning and the ending of your relationship, but you left out the very important middle part that explains what went wrong. I think the answer to your question lies somewhere in those 3 months you skipped over. Either you did something you shouldn't have done or your ex did something he shouldn't have done and felt it was easier to blame you for it. There's a chance that it could all be a big misunderstanding, but such a misunderstanding points to serious problems in your relationship.
It seems to me that you're either in denial about why your relationship ended or you have no idea why it ended - both options indicate a serious lack of communication in the time you two spent together. Relationships are about communication, not about the butterflies you get in your stomach or the hours you lie awake thinking about the other person. Without communication, you have no idea what the other person wants, needs, or is thinking.
The only way you can repair this is by doing what you should have done to begin with - communicate with him. Try to get him to listen to you and try to figure out together what went wrong. Tell him what's going on in your life right now and why you need his support. Unfortunately, he may not want to give it to you. Just remember, if you truly didn't do anything wrong, he's under the misconception that you did or he's hiding behind it as an excuse because he did something wrong.
Good luck. Let me know how things turn out for you. :)
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