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Hurt?


Question Posted Friday July 13 2007, 4:13 pm

Does it actally hurt your first time? Why? Do you bleed???? how long does it last?

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leLovely answered Sunday July 15 2007, 1:21 am:
Virgin, so I don't know. It hurt my friend really bad her first time. It took her & her boyfriend a few tries before she was actually able to have sex. It takes a few tries to get used to it and not hurt anymore. But it doesn't hurt for some people. It really depends. I can't really answer this question though!

You can bleed, not everyone does. Usually people bleed from the tearing of their hymen, but it can be broken from other activities prior to having sex.

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Jessica13 answered Friday July 13 2007, 11:16 pm:
um both my sisters said that it didn't hurt for them but when i first had sex it hurt really bad to where i almost wanted to quit but most the reason why was because i was pernoid.
it hurts if he tears your hymen or pops your cherry (sometimes)
yes i did bleed alot but my sisters didn't and nither did one of my friends
the hurting only lasts a little bit the bleeding doesn't last that long either
hope i helped

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chloekc answered Friday July 13 2007, 5:14 pm:
It can hurt and then again it might not... Sounds weird i know but it depends on the person's physical state and the person's mental state. If you go into it all nervous, your muscles will contract and make you become even tighter than you would be and cause it to hurt.
The 'blood' is where a thin piece of skin called your hymen is just inside the 'entrance', when penetrated then hymen either breaks or stretches causing you to bleed a little or in some cases a lot. The pain should disappear a while after but in some people it can be longer and more blood just depending on your size down there etc.
I know this is a weird way to describe it but think when you haven't stretched your leg muscles in ages then you just go and try and do the splits, they're obviously going to be tight and cause you some discomfort..that's what it's like your first time...

Hope that helps:)

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Mr_Skittles answered Friday July 13 2007, 4:30 pm:
Possibly.
Yes.
That depends on how long you want it to.

*EDIT*
In reply to your comment in the rating; I'm not exactly sure. I'm a guy, so it's all fun and games the entire time for me. You'll have to wait for the girls to start answering to know the actual extent of it.

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