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Drivers Ed Delemia!


Question Posted Friday July 13 2007, 1:28 pm

My Drivers Ed teacher is rude! today in fact he took out a kids report and read it out load and laughed because he though it was dumb and orally said that the student was dumb and his report was a joke!

Then as i had my driving time with him we learned parell parking. after like my 100th try i got it right. so then he said "go to that spot and show me ur stuff" (stuff as in what you can do) then i kinda stuck my chest out trying to see if i had hit the car in front of me and then i hear, "whoa i didn't mean that stuff! did you hear me wrong stupid?"

Then later that day some kids had to leave early so the kids asked. He said "i don't know...." then the kid said "we have to go!" and he relpied "don't mouth off to me kid! I am older than you and i deserve more respect!" then the kid sank in his chair and said "my coach is gonna kill me if we don't go." then the teacher replied....."good then you won't be in my class anymore you retard! get out!!!"

i tried telling the school about this but they reject the fact that a "teacher" could do such a thing!
HOW DO I GET THEM TO LISTEN TO ME? AND IS WHAT HE DOING WRONG? OR AM I OVER REACTING?


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leLovely answered Sunday July 15 2007, 1:11 am:
You and all of the kids that he's saying this stuff to should go and tell the administrator. He has no right to talk to kids, let alone anybody like that. If they don't believe you, even though they should, you should bring a tape recorder. Keep it in your purse or pocket and then just record so that you have evidence of what a dick this guy is.

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Mr_Skittles answered Friday July 13 2007, 5:25 pm:
If you're taking this with your school then he's most likely a coach right? Yeah, they're kinda dicks like that.


He's got an alpha dog attitude, the only way to get him to react is to put yourself on the same level as him. If he wants to be fucking faggot then play his little game. Don't sink into your seat, stand up for yourself and make the point you originally wanted to.

I'd have been so pissed if that dumbass took my report and called me a retard. Mmm... he'd have gotten a mouthful for sure.

Just keep the playing field even, if he wants to be the alpha dog, treat him like he's just some kid your age being a stuck up dickface.

It DOES work, trust me. I've had plenty of scenarios where when I was younger adults thought they were the toughest shit around and could say whatever the hell they wanted. It usually surprised the shit out of them when I told 'em to straighten up and I didn't like their attitude.

For this guy, if he wants to be a dumbass, just say you have no respect for what he's saying. If he has some prick response to that (he will) laugh at him and call him a dumbass. He'll hate it. People who disrespect deserve no respect. You might be a bit scared to stand up to him, but realize he holds no power, only the amount you let him have.

He shouldn't be allowed to belittle people like that. I can't stand that bullshit when people do that.

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Sabine answered Friday July 13 2007, 3:12 pm:
Okay, you AND several classmates all need to go TOGETHER to the administration with a written complaint, signed by as many students as possible, and you need to take a copy to your Principal as well as someone higher up. Your parents should also be made aware of this abuse. That's what it is. It's not joking. It's not discipline. It's abuse. Don't take this behavior so he won't be able to do it to others after you're gone.

Sabine

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*Kate* answered Friday July 13 2007, 3:04 pm:
This teacher might just be joking around and doesn't realize he is offending some students. I would try talking to him first one day after class saying "Excuse me Mr. So and so, but I was really bothered when you said ....."

You might be overreacting, but I wasn't sitting in the classroom with you, so I you really feel like this teacher is being inappropiate, go to the office and file an incident report or make an appointment with the principal. If none of that works have one of your parents call the school to speak with the principal. That is one thing Principals hate, having an angry parent to deal with.

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Igotamonopoly answered Friday July 13 2007, 2:01 pm:
Video tape him. Like, cut a hole in a black like purse and put the camera in there and turn it on and tape him and give it to your school board. Or put a tape recorder in your stuff and turn it on.

MAKE TWO COPIES somehow, and keep one and give one to the principal. Keep the other one.

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