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How do I get his attention?
I love spending all of my time at the beach. You might think it's because of the waves (which I do surf) or the soft sand, but it's not. I love it there because of one of the lifeguards. His name is Cameron and he is ADORABLE! I don't know what to do to get his attention. I walk by him all the time and try not to make it obvious but I really want him to hang out with me.
I also want to have more guy friends. Does anyone have some tips for this coming school year on how to behave or what to do? DON'T SAY "BE YOURSELF!"
thanks
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even though it's not what you want to hear,being yourself is part of it.
you have to be able to treat you guy friends like a human instead of a male. ya know what i'm sayin? take away the fact that the guy is not of the same gender.
there are,however,a few rules.
1.do not talk about your period,EVER!!!! guys do not want to hear about it.
2.when you tell him a story about something that happened,make it a minute or less. You don't have to tell him every detail.just the main points.
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To get his attention, just walk up to him and talk to him. If you know him from school and have talked before, it should be okay. But if you never talked to him before then be like "hey there, im ___ whats up?"
To have more guy FRIENDS dont become a tom boy but if you play sports, then talk about sports, i love basketball, and football, so thats how i get all my guy friends. I talk about football, or basketball. But if you dont play sports then ask them about it. But if you end up getting a boyfriend this year, DO NOT FLIRT WITH YOUR GUY FRIENDS.. NUMBER ONE RULE!.. friends are friends, nothing more. I hope i helped<3
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Erm, you can pretend to drown...but I don't think that's a great idea. Go up to him and ask that you were looking forward to being a lifeguard one day and you wanted to know what you had to do [later on tell him that what you said was BS just so you could talk to him =P]
If it was me, I'd just go up with a friend or two and just say what's up and just strike up random conversations with him. But keep in mind that he still needs to do his job and not talk to a girl the whole time while he's on duty.
As for having guy friends, I'm sorry to say but the key is to be yourself. You shouldn't try and make yourself into something your not and make friend by doing so because your friends won't be YOUR friends...rather the person you want to be's friends. But try and get involved in different clubs and school activities. I'm sure you'll be able to find guy friends there. And just be yourself and don't be afraid to talk to a guy =) Pretend that they're like your girl friends [except don't go and talk about the female anatomy and what not..] Just be friendly to guys, talk to them and see if any guys want to partner up with you with labs or projects or any partner work things =) Ask a group of guys to go bowling or to the movies with you and your girl friends =) Good luck
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With the lifeguard issue. He is probably not trying to look for a date or anything because he is on his job. He sees many woman or girls walking pass him so that wouldnt make a difference. You should just go up to him and ask questions about his life and the beach.."Hi. how r u?" and "Do you like to surf?" and "What is it like being a lifeguard?" and "How long have to had this job?" Then get into a good conversation. I say just go up to him and start talking to him...
You have to do the same thing. Well I just start talking to peeople in class... You start a conversation about anything. Then say heres my number so we can finish teh conversation or heres my number so we can talk some time.
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