|
wht to do????
okay so i have just gotten over this one guy that i have liked for a bit and all and i am all good now with that. but now there is a new guy in my summer school class and for the past two weeks we have been having a really good time. he is the type that will come up to me and talk to me and he is a REALLY big flirt and i like that. anyways well my one friend met him in person and said that we would be really cute together and she liked him(friend way) and that she knows that he likes me or watever. and then my other friend went on his myspace and decided that he was a player and that he probably isnt the best. now i dont know what to do i mean i am beginning to really like this guy and i have no clue what to do. i dont think he is a player and he is realy sweet but my friend is determined that he isnt good. any suggestions?? thanx!!1 <3
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
well first off if a friend senses he isnt good then listen they wouldnt be doing it just for the hell of it, thiers obviously something thats not right, and you should never doubt your friends in something like this espeacially a girlfriend, friends are ten times better then boys. mean while if you like him then find out for yourself, i mean you live once and thiers always that chance you take where you have to say what if, so do what you think is right no matter what the consequences.
hope i helped
]
You know what when a friend you've known longer than this guy tells you he's a player than listen. Of course thats always hard to do so find out for yourself. Go over to your friends and decide if his myspace suggests a player or not! Two friends have different opinions. I would follow the opinion of the girl who has more advice after I have made a decision about it too! Hope I helped. =)
]
The saying, "Never judge a book by its cover" seems to come to mind.
I think the best thing to do is if you really like this guy is to get to know him better YOURSELF. It may be true he is a player (don't forget that if he is trying to win you over he isn't exactly going to act like a player infront of you) but on the other hand he may just be that way on myspace (I mean Ipersonally don't take stuff on myspace seriously and I don't see why a lot of other people do either). Get to know him better and if you both like eachother then by all means get to gether and see how things go. If you are afraid that he might be that way then by all means talk to him about it and see what he says. I'm always being told I'm a slut because I flirt a lot but it doesn't make me a player at all because there's a big difference between the two, in my opinion. The whole idea of dating and such is to get to know the other person better and see if you are both compatable with each other. If he turns out to be a bad choice then you can just end it, count your losses and move on but if he does turn out to be how you hope he is then he was a great choice and good luck. :]
]
More Questions: |