you know what sucks?
the fact that in the begging of every school year im so quite and concerned about what people think and im not really myself. and then right when it starts to get hot out
[i loveee the heat :)]. i like start to not care what anyone thinks of me and i act just like who i am and everyonee starts to really like me.
i wish i could have that attitude in the begging of the year because then i would have an amazingg year not just an amazingg few months of school and then have everything end because the summers coming up & im not going to see those people again thro out the whole summer.
i dont really know what to ask for advice but just anything that you think will help me with this problamoo tell.
thanks.
christina answered Sunday July 8 2007, 10:05 am: The answer is corny, but just be yourself. If you can do this in the last few months of school, you should be able to do this all year round as well. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
ammo answered Sunday July 8 2007, 9:06 am: I guess the solution to your problem was simple - be yourself and don't pretend to be someone you're not. :] It's obviously worked wonders with you and granted you only have a couple months left now of school but... you learned something about yourself and it's a lesson worth holding onto. So all I can say is that you've actually already answered your own question here - just be yourself.
The truth is that you can't please everyone - no one can. Saying that no matter how you're going to act some people will accept you/like you and others just won't. So, it's just far better to be yourself - makes it so much easier on yourself and you get to appreciate that the people who like you do so for who you really are. When you go back after the summer just be yourself since it's the person everyone likes. Don't be afraid to be yourself.
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