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Circumcision
I'm not jewish and I was born in England- so my parents didn't have me circumcised when I was born (in Europe they don't do it often).
I've only had sex with one girl, and it was strange when she first learned about it.
So my questions:
1. Does it bother girls to be with a guy who is not cut?
2. Should I go ahead and have surgery to have it cut?
3. How would I tell my parents? I don't have any problems with hygeine or peeing or anything- and I don't want to tell them that it is because girls prefer it the other way?
Please help.
Cheers.
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Do not have surgery. There are no medical reasons to be circumcised, girls have no reason to care about it, I've never known a girl who cared about it. It's like any cosmetic surgery... do you really want to undergo a major medical procedure just so you can blend it with what American society tries to say we're all like, or can you just be yourself, realize that you're valuable the way you were born, and avoid complications from surgery?
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1. Some girls are picky and are turned off by a guy who isn't circumcised. Most girls, though, shouldn't really care. When you're erect, the difference isn't very noticeable.
2. That's COMPLETELY up to you. If it would make you feel better and more confident, then go for it. If you're okay with not being circumcised, then just keep what you've got. Don't do it for the girls, only do it for yourself. If you aren't having any problems with it, then there's no reason to go through the pain of removing the foreskin.
3. Just tell them that you would feel a lot better about yourself and more confident if you were to be circumcised. Tell them (if this is true) that you're self conscious about it and you feel it can hold you back in relationships and sex in the future.
I hope this helps. Good luck! :]
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I've been with both circumcised and non-circumcised men, and to tell the truth the only real difference I've noticed is in the technique for hand stimulation. It's a lot easier with a guy who isn't circumcised :P
Most women I know wouldn't care one way or the other, and I'm of the opinion that if they do care, they're too immature to be having sex anyway - People come in all shapes and sizes, and have all sorts of unique features, people need to be able to understand and appreciate that if they're going to have sex.
I would say talk to your doctor (go to a sexual health clinic if you're too embarrassed to go to your family doctor, sexual health workers see a LOT worse everyday and they're rarely judgemental of anything), get as much information as you can before you approach your parents with your decision.
I hope you are able to make a choice that will make you happy; just as a side note, I know a man who was born half-circumsised. He was shy and uncomfortable about it at first, but now he has a very healthy and confident sexual life.
It's not what it looks like, it's how you use it that matters ;)
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Just tell your DAD that you don't like having extra skin on your penis! That's a good enough reason. I think girls prefer circumcised really I think they do! Hope I helped.
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