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Are they too "busy" for me?
Okay so I always seem to be the ONLY person making plans out of all of my friends. But the thing is, everytime I make a plan, no one even bothers to remember it or are ALWAYS too busy to hang out with me or sometimes don't even bother to show up. EVeryone just acts so flaky all the time. Idk what I'm doing wrong; when I do get a chance to hang out with these people, we have a great time. So why should I be the only one ever taking action and making plans, and being disappointed when they all can't time out of their "busy" lives to just hang out for one day during the summer?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Look I'm not going to be mean...I'm just going to be blunt..it may seem harsh but it's the truth...Get some new friends...they aren't your friends...chances are they don't like you that much...or at all for that matter...you probably have something that they want so they pretend to be your friends...I suggest going out and getting some new friends that will hang out with you and ditch the ones you've got now because they are no friends of yours!
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Im sorry hun but Im going to have to say this quite harshly so that you won't forget it and be back in that vicious circle again. THEY DON'T LIKE YOU. =( Think about it always busy or leading you on that they are going to come through then not. I went through the same thing. You can't really call those people ''friends.'' Anyways Im really sorry next time notice the signs first before you get too caught up with them. For example not picking up your phone calls or if they do it's always only five minutes long. Seeing them all out together when they said they were ''busy.'' Them all laughing together and ''joking'' about you all the time. Girl read the signs they are so low they have to pretend they are better than you to make themselves feel good. Who needs friends like that. Im sure they all talk about eachother behind there backs. It's one thing about girls I can't stand. I hope I helped without getting too harsh.=( Ask me for more advice I have a column. Let me know how it's going. It's scary making new friends but your better off being alone then being degraded like that. =)
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hey, well have you ever thought that they could be making plans without you? sad to think about, but what if? how close are you to them? if you have known them for a long time and are usually faithful loyal friends, ask them why there acting like that point blank. good luck.
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