Ok. ive never had a boyfriend before and ive also never felt this way about a boy. the problem is that we havent EVER talked to each other and i think he likes me. Hes at my bus stop and i will always catch him glancing at me. But i REALLY want to talk to him but im the really shy type especially when it comes to a cute boy like him. he lives on the street right behind mine. does anyone know what i should do to talk to him. and since its summer, i dont see him and all i do is think about him all of the time. Please help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CheRrYToP_x3 answered Friday July 6 2007, 10:37 am: Im really shy when it comes to guys i like too, so i understand. I always try to have my friends around me so that i can feel comfertible, and hopfully the person i like can see me. It sounds weird, but just find a wingman i guess, like have a friend talk to him so you can talk with him too, it makes it much easier. Just make sure taht after she starts talking to him a little bit, make sure you make time to talk to him on your own too. Then before you know it, you will probably be commferitble with him and you could try asking him out, or flirt with him the more and more you get to know him. For the summer you could either use this time to build up your self confidence, and practice overcomming shyness, orr if you and your friends could walk down his street make a scene lol and maybe he'll come out so you could talk to him or something lol. i dont know ... well i hope to help! :) [ CheRrYToP_x3's advice column | Ask CheRrYToP_x3 A Question ]
chloekc answered Friday July 6 2007, 5:57 am: If you haven't spoken to him before to be honest you haven't got much to lose, if you keep leaving it you're not going to gain anything so just give it a try:) Just start a conversation with him with something simple like music or comment on something he's doing or wearing, just some general chit chat really. He's probably as shy as you when it comes to girls so will probably talk to you more and more if you make the first move and show you're a nice girl:)
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CarriKaysx3 answered Friday July 6 2007, 2:20 am: Girl, go for it! If you really like him, just get a friendly relationship going, then ask him out! And don't beleive all that bull that guys have to ask the girls out. It doesn't matter. You don't want to miss the chance, just incase he is shy too. Hope I helped. (:
chaoticchic15 answered Friday July 6 2007, 1:54 am: I think you know what im going to say...you HAVE to talk to him.If you like him this much,you should have a chance with him.The only way you can have that is if you try talking to him.Think about it whats the worst that can happen?Its not like youll really lose that much if hes not interested,theres plenty of fish in the sea.Just casually stand next to him the next time you see him and ask him a question.Just something stupid like ask him what time it is.Then tell him your name,ask him whats up.Who knows? you guys may hit it off.I understand how it is to be really shy,ive been there,but trust me your not going to get what you want if you just stand around and wait for him because he could be shy as well.Work up the courage and go for it!
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