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girls on top


Question Posted Friday July 6 2007, 1:20 am

i'm 5'2" my boyfriend is 5'7-8" he's 7 1/2" and i have really short legs... he doesn't like to do all the work so he puts me on top sometimes, and i just feel soo lost. i can't get myself up high enough to do a good job, and in past relationships i've never had to do anything. i'm trying everything i can to do better.. i've read everything.. is there anyone with the same problems?

thank you,
beth


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chakra answered Friday July 6 2007, 9:25 am:
Yes i can deffiantly relate, although theres more of a height difference with me and my boyfriend.
I'm 5ft2, and he's 6ft4!

Have you tried putting a pillow under your back to elevate you?

Also, instead of doing it in bed, we found sitting on the floor works wonders, him sat on the floor while you sit on top of him with your legs wrapped round his waist, it's really close and intimate too :-)

or you could try sitting on sofa and he kneels on the floor and you do it that way.

Have fun! ;-)

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sugarplum07 answered Friday July 6 2007, 9:20 am:
Try leaning back a little bit and rest your hands on his knees (or thighs... which ever is more comfortable) and then rock yourself forward and backward.

You two could also try sitting upward, facing each other. Support your arms behind you and rest your legs over his and sort of push yourself to him.

Hope that helps!

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NinjaNeer answered Friday July 6 2007, 2:01 am:
I'm 5'7", and my boyfriend is 6'3", so I can identify.

What you have to do is, rather than trying to bob up and down, rock back and forth. I like to lean my elbows up near his head, and get my leverage that way.

Hope that helps a bit!

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