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Is it love or sex?
My boyfriend and I have sex almost every day. Some people see this as a bad thing others dont...Im not sure cause people keep telling me that Im confussing sex with love. I've had sex with 3 other guys. I never felt this way before. I know for a fact that I love this boy. But why does everyone think having sex is a bad thing. We have sex 2 or 3 times a day and we are always all over each other. I feel comfortable kissin and making out anywhere. Is this bad?
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the sex thing is not bad. however, extreme pda is not. This sort of behavior drives people away because they know that if they will hang out with you and your boyfriend, you will be all over each other. It's great that you and your guy have chemistry, but it's best to only be expressed between the two of you. I'm not saying you shouldn't kiss once in a while in public, just don't take it overboard. Other than that, it seems like you are happy and normal. =]
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you poor little thing no it certainly isnt you go ahead if your sure you love him good on you girl go ahead my sweet!
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Well, sex and love are two different things sometimes for guys "love" means having someone to have sex with. Next time he wants to DONT if he really loves U he will listen to U
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No its not a bad thing at all, sex is acually healthy. Its just the fact that people are looking out for you, they dont what to see you get hurt emotionally, or possibly become pregnant,even become diagnosed with an std. Some relationships are all physical, i mean if thats the way you guys like to have your relationship that is fine as long as your content. Just take to heart that love has to do with more than just the physical elements such as sex. But if you continue to have sex with various individuals i would just advise you to get yourself checked for any stds/aids(even check now just to be safe, you could pass it on to the guy you love.)
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I think some people are so pissed about it because of religeous matters. In the christian religon, it is a sin to have sex before marrige. I don't know what religon you are but if it feels right, then go for it. But, don't take advantage of sex, it stab you if the back, or break your heart. Making Love is when your in the moment and passion overwhelms you. Sex is a way to show how much you love your partner. I hope this has helped.
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is not bad but,not at all, but the ebst thing to do is find out if he loves you to or is it just for the sex, try to go a day without and see what happenes, how he reacts to it, nad you'll be sure to find out if its love or sex
hope i helped
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it's not necessarily bad. i have a friend that's the same way and i kinda think that his relationship is based on sex, that's only because i know how he is though. you? well, try not having sex for like.. 3 days? see if you guys can have fun doing other things, like going to the movies [yes, making out is okay], going to dinner, etc. that way if you still feel the same, you reassure yourself and prove everyone wrong, but if not, then you can take a closer look at your relationship and figure out whats wrong and work on it.
good luck(:
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