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MESSED UP FRIENDSHIPS!
I have this friend, let's call her D. D copies everything I do. I mean it's a little stupid to complian over, but she took my title, #1 Pirates of the Caribbean Fan!, on myspace, and everything else. She copied my look, my title, my everything. I know, people just say don't worry about it or she just admires you, but I don't care! Sure, I liked to be liked (As a friend!), but I don't want to be worshipped! I mean, COME ON! Does everybody have to copy me and fight over me? When I was in school a couple weeks ago, my friends literally started fighting just to sit next to me at lunch! WHATS UP WITH THAT?! I like friends, but not my friends to kill my other friends for me! One time, my one friend D and ket's calll her T actually wanted to start a fist fight, just to sit next to me at lunch! And, I'm losing friends because I sit next to the people who don't beat each other up to sit next to me. I like all my friends all the same, but I don't want a massacre to happen! I NEED ADVICE BAD!!!!
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holy crap. Ok,well this is how i found out to stop copyers. find something you know they can't copy. you know they can't copy your life,as much as they want it. anyways, i would start making my own clothes,purses,or something along those lines. they'll grow out of copying eventually. As for the seat thing,if they fight to sit with you,just leave the table and sit with your other friends. tell them you don't like being around people who fight and don't see why everyone should fight over sitting next to you. ((Add in you like them all the same,and its just a lunch table,seriously.)) sounds like your friends have some growing up to do,sorry. and i would change your myspace title to something that has your name in it. or like a little quote. you could do ((your name))L♥VES P0+C! :] :]. and also for myspace,if you want,put pictures taken by you on there (if you like photography) one more thing,add in you hate copiers (if you haven't already) because,they obviously don't want you mad at them,(since they kind of worship you,they wouldn't want you to get mad at them...ha,you knoww?) anyways i hope i helped :] good luck!
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at lunch one day tell everybody that they shouldnt fight over a seat. suggest for them to make a schedule to rotate the seating charts so everybody gets a chance to sit next to you.
and as for the girl who copys you, tell her that you know its out of admiration, but its kind of annoying and that people will like her more if she is an original. and it works better to say stuff in peoples face, rather than telling them through another friend or a myspace message.
i hope i helped :]
Jess
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talk to them and tell them how you're feeling. say something like you want to be friends with all of them, but fighting over you is just stupid. Spend time with 1 individual at a time, and then gradually increase to 2 of your friends.. then 3 and etc.
If none of your friends seem to want to share you, then i suggest talking to them about finding new friends or talk to someone else.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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