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I don't know why he's acting like this, or what I should do
Ok, well theres this boy that I liked a lot and he usually hooks up [makes out] with a lot of girls, and then leaves them but we hooked up for the first time in a movie theater, and he still wanted to see me again and everyone said that he must really like me if he still wants to hang out with me. So I hung out with him again and we hooked up again, but now the whole time we held hands and everything seemed good. But then I found out he thinks my best friends hott, and he wants to "get to know her." I confronted him and he told me that everything would be okay, and that he just thinks shes attractive but now 2 days later hes being really weird and says he doesnt know if he wants to talk to me anymore, and I dont know what I did because the other day he was saying everything would be ok. I ve been really upset and even though of killing myself, until my friends ex imed me and was being really nice to me and asked me out. What do I do about both of them? And why is he all of a sudden being really weird?
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Don't kill yourself. Don't even think about killing yourself over a boy.
Unfortuantely, if he hooks up with girls and leaves them, he'll do it again. It sucks that he lied to you, but people get reputations for reasons. He's all of a sudden being really weird because now he wants to hook up with your friend and leave her. It's a vicious cycle. My advice? Forget about him. He's no good for you.
Now about the other guy. Do you like him? Even a little bit? If the answer is yes you should probably accept his offer to go out. It would be a nice chance of pace from the guy you were just with. If it doesn't work out, you'll move on. And who knows? It could turn out to be something great.
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ive been in a similar situation as you, and let me just tell you; guys like this arent worth it. if he hooks up with a lot of girls & then leaves them, it sounds like hes going to continue to take this path, and hes already tried to do this with you. its all he wants out of the girl, obviously. DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. you dont need this guy, and never ever think of killing yourself over a person, especially one guy. its so not worth it, it might seem like its everything to you now, but believe me you will be with SO many other guys in your life. and this guy doesnt seem like a good reason at ALL to kill yourself over either. please promise me you wont think about suicide over him again. you also say you dont know what you did wrong. well, you didnt do anything wrong. the guy is playing you, it seems. if two days went by, and hes already bored, then hes most likely got all hes wanted out of you. =[ sorry hun. ive been in your position, and yes it hurts, like hell, and in my situation i also didnt realize i was being used until after the fact. this guy's only in it for the hookup it seems; and apparently you really like him and want more than to be just one of his hookup girls. but seriously, save yourself now. get out and find a more mature guy who is more into having a comitted hookup/relationship if thats what you're looking for. your friend's ex could be fun to hang out with, and you might end up being better off with a guy like him. i wish you best of luck!
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Okay let me start off by saying, killing yourself is NEVER the answer. Especially over a boy! Don't give him the satisfaction of letting him know he got to you.
I can't tell you exactly why this guy is acting so weird but it doesn't sound like he's being sincere in anything he's doing. Personally, I choose not to associate with those kinds of people because in the end, you're always the one being let down.
Talk more to your friend's ex if he's being nice! He could be a really good friend that you haven't met yet! But don't try and have him replace the one that you liked alot. You'll just be setting yourself and him to be hurt.
Best of luck!
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i think the only reason he went out with u is to get closer to ure friend so just let go of him because he wasn't the right person for u. And don't kill yourself over a boy. go out and try new things. and for that other boy try him out but make sure thats the thing u want to do.
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