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so upset and depressed
14/f
I'm more upset than I usually am right now because a guy friend of mine just told me that this other girl said i was fat and was making fun of me. I used to not think I was fat, even though I am. I'm curvy and i thought that was sexy, but apparently it's not okay. I'm sitting here crying right now and i've been doing that all day. It's not my fault that I don't have a metabolism. I eat 1200(or fewer) calories a day, only healthy food, and I work out every day, but lo and behold I'm still a fatass! And everyone else i know is an anorexic bitch who eats whatever she wants.
If you don't believe that I'm fat- take a look at this pic: (yes i know the clothes are form-fitting- that's so you can see my figure better)
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please don't say anything like "Oh you're so fat hunny you just need to exercise and eat right!" BECAUSE I ALREADY DO BOTH OF THOSE THINGS! GOOD LORD!
So i'd really like some advice on how to feel better about what this girl did to me.
thanks.
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all you can do is eat healthy, and excercise exercise exercise! maybe you could talk to a doctor about helping you with a diet plan if you are worried about your health though, and ask them why its hard for you to loose weight. Trust me this world is so messed up and you arent fat, you just arent skinny, which ALOT of people arent, and its OKAYY because at least you are healthy. dont obsess about it seriously, because that would make you like all the other insecure girls in this world. Rise above it and look at things from a way different perspective. Charish your flaws and look what makes you beautiful! I know it might be hard to do right now because you are wrapped into being thinner, but you really need to tell yourself to stop worrying about that, and just worry about being healthy!
btw- the skinny girls that eat whatever they want, will blow up when they get older. This is because there diet habits are totally wacked, and when their matabolism slows down (which happens in the 20s) then they will BLOW! so dont be jelious, seriouly!
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If you're truly eating under 1200 calories, you should increase. Staying under 1200 calories messes up your metabolism.
You should talk to your doctor. You might have a metabolic or other disorder that is preventing you from losing weight. Thyroid problems, for instance, can cause weight gain, as well as a myriad of other symptoms.
Mind you, you look fine. But if it's really bothering you, the first step is to see a doctor. He or she can assess you for physical problems, as well as recommend a program to help manage your weight if he/she feels it necessary.
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You're not fat, by any means.
Unfortunately, during high school, there's a standard set by the girls who haven't really hit puberty yet. Your body shape just means that you have begun to mature faster than them. I had the same problem... I thought I was fat all throughout high school, when really I wasn't. Try not to worry too much about it. As long as you're eating healthy and working out, you're doing great!
I would suggest that you up your calorie intake, though, because you should be consuming at least 1500 calories.
If it's any consolation, the scrawny girls will have a lot more trouble when it's baby time :D Plus, college guys like curves.
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a todler eats more than 1200 calories and i dont see how you could eat less than that !
curves are sexy if you like a mexican
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You really aren't at the extent this girl had said you were. As long as you are healthy, then rejoice. Celebrate your body: this girl does not even matter and nor should anything she has and will say. =]
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