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first "date"
ok, so im 15/m and I like one of my friends (lets call her Brandi) that Ive been talking to for like a month or so and Ive gotten to know her a little bit and I have alot of fun talkign to her on the computer. well last week we decided we needed to hang out sometime and this weekend we are supposed to go see fantastic four: rise of the silver surfer. she says she likes me, but thinks her and I need to get to know each other a little bit better before she decides if she wants to be in a relationship with me. one of my ex's and closest friends is also pretty good frineds with me and thinks that Brandi and I would make a good couple so thats good. well on myspace Brandi posted a bulletin about kissing and u had to respond saying whether you would kiss the person posting it or pass and I said I would kiss her and she just repied with a smiley and typical flirting stuff. now I havent kissed anyone in close to a year because Ive been too busy to have a real relationship. Im afraid to make a move during the movie and rush things, so should I just let her make all the moves and stuff? any other helpful advice would be greatly appreciatated.
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take your time and dont push things. i would say dont try and make out with her during the movie, but maybe try to hold her hand or pull her a little bit closer to you. i would wait until after the movie when you guys have the oppourtunity to talk and be focused on each other to flirt around a little bit more and then if things are going well, kiss her. but wait until she gives you a sign that she wants you to make a move on her. you'll get a bad vibe if she doesnt want you too... girls are usually pretty good at that. i cant stand it when im not interested in a guy and he just doesnt get it, so letting her give you some kind of hint is usually better.
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well dont be a anxious bitch.. take your time on it during the movies with my ex we were pretty good with each other...um look kind of lean with her like if the arm rest can be put up and not lean on it scoot close with her like lay your head against her shoulder.. but look wait till you think it is right like um ive seen the movie when a little touchy love scene comes look at her in a little flirty way but if she smiles thats a good thing um but like try the fake yawn and put your arm around her and if she leans in you got it um or try holding hands with her it shouldnt mattter just take your time with it but over all she should feel like she loves you because of the movie story line it kind of puts it in the mood but take your time try to lean with her and make her feel like she can lay on your chest and be comfortable
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If you believe its the time to make a move, GO FOR IT.
She likes you, you like her..
What wrong??
I believe guys should make the move ALWAYS.
First you have good converstation..
Laughter...
Put your arms around her, telt her head towards yours...
And give her a soft warm kiss
If she likes it
Then make out with her
BUT!!
Make sure you are in the back row
Thats ultra SEXY!
Hope I helped
Trina
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The fact that you asked this question really shows you care a lot, and that's good! A month is a pretty good amount of time to be "talking to someone" before actually dating them. Definitely go to that movie, don't even call it a date if you don't want to, but both of ya'll just need to see how you feel in that kind of situation with the other person. Have you ever hung out with her outside of school? If not, you could start out with some group get-togethers and go putt-putting or bowling or anything really. This will allow you two to be relaxed around each other without feeling the pressure of dating. If you are at the movies with her, and everything is really going well, then kiss her! If you're hesitant, don't stress either because good things come with time.
good luck-
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I'd suggest just playing it cool. See how it goes on the actual date. The worst thing you can do is panic about it.
You will get vibes when you are on the date and my thought is always go with the instincts you feel.
Hope it goes well
The Good Lady
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