I'm 16/f, and had a best friend that was 16/m. We were very good friends, hung out everyday almost, or called almost everyday. Either way, we were always talking/or together. Anyway, awhile ago, in January, something happened that ruined our friendship. Now we get in little fights over ANYTHING, and we try to fix it all but it keeps building up. We've been trying since January to regain our old friendship. Is this a lost cause? I really believed our friendship could get back to being very close, but I'm starting to feel like we're both slowly giving less effort. Is there anyway our friendship could ever be like it was, if we keep trying? Thank you.
iwantthetruth answered Thursday June 21 2007, 1:54 am: last year my best friend and i hated eachother for a while. i mean it was really bad to the point where we argued about everything and couldnt stand eachother. eventually we tried to talk about what happened at put it behind us. if you value the friendship and want it back then its not too late. talk to him about it and explain everything. ask him what he thinks about it too. slowly the two of you can become friends again. it worked for me.
alwaysmile answered Thursday June 21 2007, 1:35 am: as hard as it is, you really just have to talk to him about whatever happened, make sure both of you understand it's something in the past and try your hardest to let it go. explain that you don't want an amazing friendship to die because of something that's in the past and can't be changed.
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