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friend..
seems to copy me alot but i dont know if she realizes shes doing it. I WOULD NEVER SAY ANYTHING TO HER shes my best freind. but i really hate it. what should i do?
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Dont worry.
Same with mi frend.
Just think of it this way- your pretty much her role model. Apperently she doesnt hav a style of her own & she LOVES yours. Thats how i think of it as. If it really does bother you then talk to her((unless she might be the type where she wont take it so well)) if thats the case, she'll grow out of that stage. & maybe you should go shopping with her & help her pic out clothes to fit her OWN style.♥
*I hope this helped or atleast gave you ideas.*
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She might not be meaning to copy you at all. I had a best friend, (Adrienne) from 3rd grade until now and I'm in High School and eventually she picked up some of the things I did and I picked up some of the things she did, it wasn't because we wanted to be the other, it was because we were so close we just picked up little habits.
And she might also be trying to please you because she's a little bit insecure and she wants you to like her more. Just be a good friend and things will improve. If you think she'll understand then talk to her about it.
And then again she might be jealous too_ just letting you know some alternatives.
Hope I helped you.
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Well, as you might already realize, she's copying you because she admires you and wants to be more like you. But no matter how she tries, she will never BE you. Even if she does every single thing you do, it won't make you any less special or unique. Everyone knows that YOU are the original, and that she's just trying to be like you. So try not to let it bother you too much. It may be annoying, but it's really not going to hurt you in any way. So I think it's best to just keep your feelings about this to yourself, and be flattered that your friend thinks so highly of you.
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u should tell her dont get mad if she is your real friend she will understand and not yell at u or anything for it
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If its really a problem, just let her know. Don't be rude about it, though. She might not even know, as you said, so she might thank you for telling her.
If you two are as good of friends as you say you are, you should be able to tell her.
Best of luck
--Jack
(15/m)
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