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being cheated on.
okay . so , me & my current bf have been dating off & on , for around 3/4 months . anyways , about a month ago he broke up with me , then the next day i found out he was going out with my bestfriend in 5th grade(caitlyn) [that he knew because she went to his school now,] and he said he only went out with her because he missed me . which didn`t really make any sence at the time , so i took him back . then today i talked to the girl he wen`t out with [caitlyn] on the computer then she said "your bf didnt want me to tell you , but i will anyways . before he "broke up" with you , he was going out with me" then i said "so he was cheating on me?!" then she goes "yes , for a day , then he broke up with me because he really liked you" so i started crying , and then i called him to get the details and i told him the whole story what had happend . he said that caitlyn still liked him & that wasn`t true at all . he said that they had started talking about going out , but never accually did . and now i`m stuck in the middle & i don`t know who to belive . my friends pretty much hate him because i`ve gave him a lot of chances . and idk . i reallllyy love him , he was my first real boyfriend , my first kiss . and idk what to do , i`m just stuck in the middle .
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sounds like hes playing you dear. leave his ass, he's not important anyway.
always remember this "there's a reason you broke up in the first place, and that reason will always come up again"
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I think you should dump the guy simply because he hasn't been a steady boyfriend, & he dated someone you knew the day after you broke up. That's just pretty low & it's obvious that they'd been either talking or hooking up WHILE you were dating. They couldn't have just made a connection & decided to go out in less than 24 hours..
& don't listen to the girl either. Whether he cheated or not, she probably is just mad cause she likes him, or cause she got used, since he did date her when you broke up & then dumped her right away when you took him back. So even if he did cheat, she's probably just mad anyway or she wouldn't have told you.
Just dump the boy & forget the girl. There's plenty of other boys that won't be like that to you.
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Honestly, you can't believe either of them.
I bet you both of them have told you lies somewhere in this mess.
Either that, or there was huge-normous misunderstanding.
If you really want to try to settle it, you got to get them both to sit down and talk to you at the same time. So the three of you can talk. That way there is no "he said that you said and she said that you said" stuff.
But even that might not satisfy you. You just have to stay friends with both of them if you want, and forget about this mess. You'll probably never know.
I recently had something very similar to this with my first boyfriend, my first kiss, whom I really loved, and still do, and some other girl. We're broken up for good because of it, but I'm friends with both people, I just can't believe either sides of their stories and I'm forced to just move on. I still wonder the real story, but I'll just never know.
It's a stressful thing not to know. To feel in the dark. But it's even more stressful making a gigundo deal trying to find out and still getting nowhere.
Best thing to do is to take a deep breath, and do lots of happy things with your real friends and other people who you know really care about you to ease your mind.
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if you've guyss been dating on and off forget about it. when you're married you cant jus marry and divorce on and off. get a real boy.
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