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How do I get him off my mind?
How do you get a person that hurt you really bad off your mind. Because I just can't handle being used.
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It hard to keep people off your mind. Just do stuff thats to keep yourself busy. Call a friend, read a book watch a good movie, go shopping, listen to music or even draw pictures. It's hard not to think about someone that hurts you, and sometimes its better not too. Talking about it helps also. Talk to a friend about how you feel or write down everything your feeling. You won't think about it so much because you expressed it, and sometimes voiceing your feelings help make them easier to handle. If you need someone to talk to about it, you can put on in the inbox or IM (informations in the profile), but dont worry soon enough you mind wont think about it as much.
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You can't. The only thing that will get them off your mind is time, plenty of time. It takes time to heal everything. I know for me it took me almost a year to get over the guy I thought was the love of my life.
In the meanwhile, do things to keep your mind off them. Make new friends, join a class, volunteer, write in your journal. Excerise is also a wonderful way to keep your mind preoccupied. Join a gym, prefferably a co-ed one where you can meet lots of other people.
Never lower your expectations. Keep working on your life and yourself. Don't measure your success by whether or not your in a relationship.
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there really isnt a way to get them off your mind. i have a friend who still likes her ex even though he cheated on her and would break up with her every single week. but just try and keep yourself busy and anything that he might have given you or pictures of you and him put in a box and put it in your closet. hope this helped =]
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